Dzimwe nguva mumwe munhu anoita chimwe chinhu chinoita kuti mweya yedu imhanye kumusoro kumusoro nekukurumidza zvekuti mazwi anonzwa kureruka-makore kure.
Isu tinosvitsa sei kuonga kunotyisa mukati medu munzira dzinozovhenekera mweya weumwe?
Zvakanaka…
1. Kumbundirana
Yangu nhamba yekutanga, inotyisa, inoshamisa, kuonga kuenda-kune nguva dzese! Kumbundirana.
Kumbundira kusina mazwi kushamisika.
Kumbundira uchinyemwerera kunoita kuti ufare.
Kumbundira kwakazara-muviri zvese izvo zvauri wakanangana nemoyo weumwe.
Kumbundira kunoudza vanhu 'Ndiri kukuona uye ndinogamuchira rudo rwako.' Icho hachisi chikuru kuvonga iwe!
2. Makadhi
Kwete, kwete Hallmark. Zvako. Sezvo mukugadzira. Kana kana iwe uchifanira kutenga kadhi, zvirinani riite iro riine isina chinhu mukati kuti unyore yako wega meseji (kwete chete siginecha yako). Ndinosarudza iwe kuzvipira kukadhi rakagadzirwa nemaoko. Vimba nezvandinoda pane izvi.
Kutenda kwakagadzirwa nemaoko (kungave iri kadhi kana pamwe keke iwe unowana iyo pfungwa) chinhu cherunako.
3. Tsamba!
Pane imwe nzvimbo mutsamba panenge paine mazwi 'Ndatenda,' asi pamberi uye mushure memashoko iwayo achange ari kutenderera kwembiri yekufadza muverengi mumaparoxysms emufaro.
Nei mufaro wakadai? Nekuti ivo vari yako mashoko! Vanhu vanoda mazwi akanyorwa kwavari nekuti zvinoreva kuti mumwe munhu (iwe) wakatora nguva yekufunga nezvavo, uye pfungwa, vadikani vangu, ichagara ichiverenga zvakanyanya!
Kutaura kuti maita tsamba kunokutendera kwete chete kuti utende mumwe munhu nezvezvaangave akakuitira, asiwo nezvaari.
'Maita zvenyu' chirevo chinotyisa, chitsvene pakati pemweya.
4. Kudzokorora Kufambisa
Dzimwe nguva, nzira yakanakisa yekutenda nayo chiito chekupa chaiko kutenderedza.
Kana muzukuru wako akabatsira iwe kubvisa akaomesa bhurasho kubva pachivanze chako, fungidzira kufara kwaachaita pauri uchipa pekugara mbichana kwemwedzi!
Kana ngatitii zuva rinofamba, rinouya kune hushamwari hwese pakupedzisira. Kana mumwe munhu akakubatsira kuti ufambe, unotendeuka uchidzoka kana nguva yasvika yekuvabatsira - uye unozviita uchifara!
Shamwari yako inogona kusabvuma izvi kwauri mushure, asi pane mukana wakanaka wekuti vadonhedze musodzi wemufaro nekuda kwako kushanya, sezvo mazuva anofamba anowanzo kwaziswa nekugamuchirwa chaiko kwekudzokororwa kwemidzi mizizi.
Iyi fomu ye 'kuripa iyo kumberi' inojekesa nzira dzakawanda. Kutaura kuti 'Ndatenda nezvawakaita' nekuita zvakafanana kana zvakafanana kune mumwe munhu - munhu wekutanga kana kwete - zvinoratidza kukoshesa kwakanyanya kuzvipira kwevamwe.
5. Gadzirira Kudya
Nzira huru yekutenda munhu mumwe kana vanhu zana ndeyekuvapa chikafu chakabikwa kumba.
Zvekare, kubata wega kwakakosha. Kana hunyanzvi hwako hwekubika husati hwasvika pakuwanda, penya chikafu chinodyiwa nenzvimbo dzako dzine nzvimbo dzinonzwisisika.
Kugovana nguva uye kutsigira chiito chakakosha, kunyanya kana ichiitwa sechiito chekutenda.
Kana kudya kusiri kwekusvikira kwako, zadza kabhegi kadiki nemabatiro avanoda woisiya kwavanenge vaine chokwadi chekuiwana. Kana kubika pie yavo yavanofarira. Kune nzira dzakawanda kwazvo dzekuti maita basa nedumbu, ivo vaizo zadza bhuku rekubika.
6. Musi Usiku
Kwete kufambidzana newe (kunze kwekunge ndizvo zvinoita zvinhu), asi ipa kuvonga nekutumira mumwe munhu pane husiku hwehusiku. Pamwe ndizvo bhaisikopo neimwe yeshamwari dzavo, kurapa kwako, kusanganisira iwe kutarisa vana vavo / kati / vabereki vakwegura, nezvimwe.
Izvi zviri chaizvo zvekutenda mumwe munhu nechipo chenguva uye nerusununguko, kwemaawa mashoma zvirinani, emabasa akasununguka.
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- 17 Zvinhu Zvisina kujairika Kuti Utende Muhupenyu
- Maitiro Ekubatsira Vamwe Muawa Yavo Yekuda
- Hunhu hweShamwari Yakanaka
7. Vatsvode
Ehezve, izvi zvinongoreva kune avo vatove vanodanana. Hapana chinoti ndinokutendai nekuda kwenyu senge yakanaka, yakasimba, ine shungu, kushamisika kutsvoda.
Zvichienderana nekutsvoda uye kuwedzera mamiriro ezvinhu, pane mukana uyu fomu yekutenda inozoenda kune mamwe maitiro epanyama ekutenda. Hapana kana chakakanganisika nazvo.
8. Nzira Yakananga
Kushamisika uye fadza mumwe munhu nekubvunza kuti ungavatenda sei. Ita kuti vazive kuti uri kutendeseka zvachose neizvi, uye nepo denga ringave risingakwanisike, unogamuchira zvirinani kuenda kumatenga edzimba kwavari.
Kazhinji kazhinji, vanhu vanoita zvinhu zve / nesu vane zero kutarisira kutarisira kwekutenda kupfuura zvakajairika 'ndatenda' Kutarisa mumwe munhu zvakaringana mumaziso uye uchiti 'Iwe wakasarudzika, waita chinhu, Ndinokuda , Ini ndoda kukupemberera iwe ”ndiko kusimbisa hupenyu zvekuti panogona kuve nekuipa-kuchema panguva yekuchinjana.
Izvi zvakanaka.
9. Ita 'Em Kuseka
Ndiwo mushonga wakanakisa here? Ehe. Iyi inzira huru yekutenda mumwe munhu nekuva anotyisa? Iwe unotengesa.
Kusiyana nezuva remanheru, izvi zvinofanirwa kuti iwe kuseka kunogovaniswa, kutora chikamu, uye kubatana kukuru.
Tsvaga komedi kirabhu. Rendi yavo yavanofarira kuseka bhaisikopo Ona mutambo imi mose munotarisira uchave unonakidza. Kune mufaro wakawanda mukuseka, inova otomatiki 'Waita hako!' kune chero mamiriro ezvinhu.
Gara Nemumwe Munhu
Kupesana nekuvaita kuti vaseke, dzimwe nguva nzira yakanakisa yekutenda kutenda kupfuura kutaura kuti kutenda ndeyoku iva nemumwe munhu.
Kazhinji mushure memariro kana chimwe chiitiko chinoshungurudza, tinoda kutenda avo vakatinyaradza, zvakadaro panogara paine twine maitiro ekuzviita pasina kuvaita kuti vanzwe kusagadzikana kana kuti ivo vari kugamuchira standard, yepasi-soro 'yekutenda.'
Gara navo. Iva navo. Ita kuti vazive nehuvepo hwako kuti haungodi chete asi unoda kuvapo kwavo kuti vanga vari uye vanoramba vari simba rako.
Ehezve, kugara nemumwe munhu hakufanirwe kusanganisira kufirwa. Kana iwe neshamwari yako yepamwoyo mapedza rwendo rurefu musango (nemi muchinyunyuta pamusoro pekupisa munzira yese), pane kungoendako kunonaya mumashure, mupe girazi rechimwe chinhu chinotonhora, uye gara naye paunenge uchimhanyisa yako girazi rako pachako.
Sezvo imi mose muchifema mweya, kuchinjana kusina mazwi kwekutenda kwechokwadi kuri kutora nzvimbo, nekuti iwe unoziva iwe wainyatsoda iko kurovedza, unonyatsoda kubuda kubva pane yako wega headpace, uye unokoshesa zvechokwadi shamwari yako nekusakusundidzira iwe pasi pechikomo.
11. Wana Hunyengeri
Parizvino, iwe uri pamusoro wenyaya yedudziro yemunhu. Wabika, waseka, iwe simba wakatsvoda, uye iwe wakatozvigadzirira rako wega moyo kadhi.
Apa ndipo paunoshoreka wega pfungwa up notch. Kunyangwe nezvatinoona zveanoshatiswa majuzi kubva kuna Ambuya kana kiddy kofi mugs kubva kugehena, vanhu vanonyatsoda kugamuchira zvipo zvakagadzirwa nemaoko, kunyanya sekutenda.
Pano, hunyanzvi hwako hwaro hwakanyatso kuita sarudzo pane kana iwe kana usiri kuita basa racho pachako. Kana iwe uchigona uye uine hunyengeri senge inyaya yechokwadi, iti ndinokutendai netafura yepadivi, ruoko rwakakandwa nemaapuro dhishi, kana, iti, rakarukwa bhachi rakashongedzwa.
kuve nani pakutsanangura zvinhu
Sezvo izvi zvakagadzirwa nemaoko, zvichauya imwe nguva mushure mekunge chero chakatangisa chikonzero chekutenda, icho chinowedzera pakadzika kwekutenda mumwe achagamuchira kuve kushamisika nechipo chakadai .
Kana kutoshamisika. Kufungidzira chinhu chinoshamisa. Uchivaudza kuti urikuda kuvagadzirira chimwe chinhu, wovaudza kuti chii, uchitora nguva yako kuzviita… vanamwari, kunyemwerera kwekusvika pakuti 'Hezvo zvaunoenda!' zvakakwana kubatidza dzimba churu kwechiuru chemakore!
12. Iva Akazvipira
Maona ivo. Ona zvavakaita, kungave kunosanganisira kuzvipira kwakadzama pachikamu chavo kana chimwe chinhu chakavakidzana sekutora vana vako kubva kuchikoro nevana vavo paunenge wakanamatira mumotokari kubva kugehena.
Hazvina mhosva kuti nzira yako ndeipi, kana iko kuendesa kuchiratidza zvakawanda zve 'Ndinoonga iwe ” pane 'Ndinoonga zvawakaita' (ona musiyano usinga nzwisisike), kuonga kwako kwakatosundira pamusoro pezinga remazwi chete, zvinova zvinoshamisa.
Vanozozvinzwa zvachose, uye vimba neni, vanhu vachakutendai nezvazvo.
