Kune akawanda marudzi akasiyana evanhu vakaoma kunze kwenyika, uye mapusa-ane hasha mhando ndiwo mamwe eanonetsa kubata nawo.
Passive-hutsinye hunhu kazhinji hunosanganiswa nehasha uye kuomesa musoro pamwe neicho chakadzika midzi chishuwo chekururamisa nguva dzese.
Rudzi urwu rwemunhu rucharwa kusvika kumagumo kuratidza kuti vakarurama, kunyangwe ivo vachiziva kuti vari kukanganisa, asi nzira yavanorwa nayo haina kunangana uye inovhiringidza. Inogona kunge iri kurumbidzwa kwakachengetedzwa, kutarisisa kwakaipa, kana kurapwa kwakanyarara.
Maitiro Ekuziva Passive-Aggressive Behaviour
Vanhu vanongoita zvehasha vanotaura manzwiro avo asina kunaka nenzira isina kunangana, saka ungatadza kuvaziva ipapo ipapo. Hazvikutorere nguva refu, zvakadaro, nekuti zvisizvo-zvine hukasha mhando dzemhando zvine hunyanzvi munzira yakasarudzika. Muchokwadi, mumativi mazhinji ivo vakafanana nemwana mudiki asingatore zvaanoda. Heano maitiro ekuziva imwe.
1. Vanovanza Kushoropodzwa Nekurumbidza
Paunotanga kushamwaridzana nemunhu asingatani-kuita zvehasha, vanogona kusangana sevanofadza uye vane hushamwari. Ivo vangatokurumbidza, uye ivo vanowanzo fadza kutaura navo. Izvo chete mushure mekunge vaenda ndipo paunoona kuti rumbidzo rwaive rwakavanzika jab. Unogona kutonzwa kubva kune imwe shamwari kuti munhu anga achikuseka kana kuparadzira makuhwa kumashure kwako .
2. Vanokuchera muchivande
Vapomeri-vane hukasha vanhu vanoedza kukutsausa iwe kuti vakugone kukushatisa. Ivo vanogona kukuudza iwe 'chokwadi, ndichaita izvozvo zviitwe,' apo ivo vasina zvachose chinangwa chekuzviita. Ivo vanogona kunonoka pachinangwa kungoita kuti iwe upotse chimwe chinhu kana kutaridzika zvakashata.
3. Vanopa Kurapa Kwakanyarara
Passive-hasha vanhu vanofarira kupa chinyararire kurapwa. Nevanhu vazhinji, kunyarara kunowanzoreva chibvumirano, asi kwete mune zvekupusa -hasha. Unogona kubvunza 'chii chakashata?' asi iwe unongowana chete mhinduro ye 'hapana' kana imi mese muchiziva kuti zvirokwazvo pane chakashata. Munhu anongoita hasha angarange nekunyarara pane kuti akuudze zviri kunyanyovashungurudza.
4. Vanogara Vachifunga Kuti Nyika Iri Kupikisana navo
Nguva yega yega kana chimwe chinhu chisingafambe nenzira yavo, vanhu vanongoita zvehasha vanozonyunyuta kuti vari kurwiswa. Zvese hazvina kurongeka uye kusarongeka. Nyika iri kuzotora. Wese munhu ari kushanda achipikisana navo.
5. Ivo Kazhinji Vanotsvinya
Sarcasm inowanzova pfumbamwe-ine hasha chombo chaunofarira chemunhu. Vanonyepedzera kunge vari kuseka ivo ivo vasiri pachena kuti havasi. Ivo vanoseka vamwe kana kuzviisa pasi vozoedza kupomhodza kurohwa ne 'kungoseka.' Sarcasm inzira isina kunanga yekutaura chaizvo zvavanoreva pasina kutora muridzi.
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Maitiro Ekubata NePassive-Anoshusha Vanhu
Passive-hutsinye hunogona kuve hwakaoma kubata nahwo. Vanhu vanogona kuita nenzira iyi nekuti ndizvo kunzwa kusagadzikana kana kusava nekuzviremekedza kwepamusoro. Neimwe nzira, ivo vanogona kungovhiringidzika uye vasingazive maitiro ekuita nemanzwiro avo nenzira inogutsa. Chero nzira, kungoita-hutsinye haugone kutsungirira. Heano maitiro ekuita nehunhu kana iwe uchiona icho.
1. Ziva hunhu seHasha
Passive-hasha maitiro ruvengo. Inogona kunge isina kunanga, asi ichiri ine hukasha uye hutsinye hunhu. Usapfeke shuga munhu apusa-ane hukasha hunhu nekuti ivo havasi kushingairira kukanda zvibhakera. Kana iwe uri munyoro uye ukapa mukati, iwe unokurumidza kudzidzisa munhu iyeye izvo zvakanaka kuti akubate iwe nekungoita-hasha. Nenzira imwecheteyo iwe haungashiviriri kurwisa kwekutaura chaiko, usashivirire isina kunanga.
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3. Ipa Iye Passive-Aneshungu Mukana Wekugadzirisa Dambudziko
Nguva zhinji, munhu anongoita hasha anozoita nenzira yavanoita nekuti havatendi kuti vari kunzwikwa . Kana iwe uchikwanisa, tsvaga yavo yekuisa. Vabvunze kuti vangagadzirisa sei dambudziko iri. Zvimwe vangakushamisa iwe uye vauye nemhinduro huru. Kana ivo vakawira mune imwe pateni yekungoita-hutsinye kana negativity, usabvume kana kupokana. Pane kudaro, taura chimwe chinhu chakadai 'Ndichachengeta izvozvo mupfungwa,' uye wozoenderera mberi. Nekufamba kwenguva, nzira iyi inogona kubatsira kushandura hunhu hwakaipa.
4. Ziva Kuti Unogona Kusakwanisa Kuchinja
Iwe unogona chete kubatsira munhu asingaite-ane hasha kuti achinje kana vachida kuchinja. Zvikasadaro, iwe hauna simba rekukanganisa maitiro avo. Usapedza zvakawandisa kwesimba rako kuyedza kununura hukama kana vasina chishuwo chekuchinja. Iwe unongova nekuzvidzora iwe pachako uye maitiro ako kune avo maitiro.
5. Ramba Wakadzikama
Vanhu vasina hanya-vane hasha vari mushure mekuita, saka musazvipa. Usazvibvumire iwe kuti upinze mukati, kunyangwe zvikasangana zvemunhu (izvo zvinowanzoita). Usatora chirauro nekuti izvo zvinongovafadza chete. Chengeta chinhambwe chako kana uchikwanisa, uye uchitambe uchitonhorera pausingakwanise. Seka iko kuseka kana kusapindura zvachose. Chero zvaungaita, usarega mamiriro acho ezvinhu achiwedzera. Fambira Mberi.
Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma chaizvo kusatora hunhu hwehasha-hwehasha kumunhu. Kurwiswa kwacho kunowanzoitika pachako uye kunokuvadza. Kunyangwe iwe usingakwanise kushandura munhu, kudzidza zvidiki zvidiki zvidiki kunobatsira kukupa simba kuti uve mutauri ari nani kana aya mamiriro ezvinhu abuda, pane kutenga mumutambo. Kana iwe uchifanira kubata nemunhu asingatani-kuita zvehasha, tora matanho nekukurumidza kugadzirisa uye kugadzirisa dambudziko.
