Fungidzira psychopath uye iwe ungangodaro uchifunga nezve stereotypical Hollywood serial killer saHannibal Lecter kana hunhu hwaChristian Bale muAmerican Psycho.
Asi nepo inofungidzirwa kuti muzana muzana yevakuru vanhu vanogona kuiswa muboka sa psychopaths, mazhinji anoshanda, kazhinji vanobudirira vanhu.
Kazhinji yenguva, iwe ungangodaro uchinetseka kuti uzive imwe, asi uzviwane iwe mune gakava - kana gakava rinoita senge rine hushamwari - uye zvinobva zvanyatsooneka kuti ndiani wauri kutarisana naye.
Heano zvisere zviratidzo zvekutaura kuti uri kukakavara ne psychopath.
Poshi. Kunyepa Kwezvirwere
Kana iyo nharo yakatenderera pazviitiko zvakapfuura uye nezviito zvemunhu uyu, iwe uchasangana nemafungu ekureva nhema, kuramba, uye fungidziro iyo isina kufanana neichoicho sezvaunochiziva iwe.
Ivo vacharamba kutadza, kupomera vamwe, kukuita kuti uve unokanganisa pane chokwadi, uye kushandisa ese marudzi eutsi uye magirazi ku purojekiti yavo vhezheni yezviitiko .
Kunyangwe iwe paunopa zvinopesana-humbowo kuratidza zvimwe, vanozotenderera manyepo ekukuvhiringidza iwe kusvika padanho raunenge usisina chivimbo mune dzako ndangariro.
2. Kuramba Kutora Basa
Nhema dze psychopath dzinowanzo shandiswa senzira yekudzivirira kutora chero mutoro wezviito zvavo. Ivo havakwanisi kubvuma kana vane mhosva uye vachadzivirira kusava nemhosva kwavo kusvikira parufu pazvinenge zvakakodzera.
Izvo hazvina basa kuti yakakura sei kana diki iyo iyo indiscretion, ivo vacharamba chero kuzvidavirira nekuti zvinogona kukanganisa iko kwakanyanya kukura kwavanoona kwavo pachavo.
3. Usambofa Wakakonzera Pfungwa Yakagadzirwa Zvakanaka
Izvo hazvina basa kuti gakava rako rakarongeka sei, kana kuti yakajeka sei uye ndeyechokwadi poindi inogona kunge iri, psychopath haife yakabvuma kuti iwe ungave, mune chero diki nzira, kurudyi.
Ivo vanoramba kukupa iwe kunyangwe chiito chidiki chemakorokoto, pachinzvimbo vachishandisa ruzivo rwekunyepedzera uye zvisina basa ruzivo kuvhiringidza zvawataura uye kuzvitenderedza kuitira kuti vagone kuchengetedza mweya wavo wepamusoro.
4. Kuzvidza Maitiro Uye Toni
Psychopaths ari, kana achivafananidza, anoshamisa anokwanisa kuchengetedza yavo inotonhorera, yakagadzikana yekunze. Vanogona kuramba vakadzikama kunyangwe iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchiita zvikuru
Chikamu chemabatiro avo chinosanganisira kubaya-baya nekukusunda - kutaura kwekufananidzira - kukumanikidza kuita chimwe chinhu. Ivo vanoziva chaizvo izvo zvavari kuita kukutsiva iwe mune yemanzwiro mhinduro inovabvumidza ivo kuti vawane yepamusoro ruoko.
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- Kugadzirisa Maitiro Paunenge Uchisiya A Narcissistic Partner Kuseri
- Rudo Kubhomba: Chiratidzo Chekutanga Chekunyevera Kuti Uri Kufambidzana neNarcissist
- Dehumanization: Maitiro EmaNarcissists Uye Sociopaths Kubata Vamwe Zvisina Kufanira
5. Mutauro wemuviri unosiyana nemazwi avo
Kuti varatidze mufananidzo wavo pachavo sechinhu chero chipi zvacho kunze kwepfungwa dzepfungwa, dzimwe nguva vanoedza kutaura maonero kana manzwiro asiri echokwadi.
Ivo vanogona kuve masters pakuona zvauri kunzwa, asi psychopaths anotambudzika kuti adudzire izvi mumanzwiro avo ivo vane ruzivo rwekunzwisisa, asi kwete kunzwira tsitsi.
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Mhedzisiro yacho ndeyekuti vanogona kutsvedza pavanenge vachiedza kuratidza manzwiro anoonekwa nekusavapo kwavo. Mitauro yavo yemuviri iri kunyanya kutaura, asi matauriro ezwi ravo uye kunyangwe kutaridzika mumaziso avo zvinogona zvakare kuratidza mamiriro avo epasi.
6.Kukurumidza Kuchinja MaMood
Nekuti iwo anotonhorera uye akadzikama chitarisiko chinowanzo kuvezwa senzira yekudzora nharo, psychopath iri panjodzi yekunyanyisa uye nekukurumidza shanduko mune hunhu.
Kana vachinzwa kuti kunze kwavo kwakaringana hakuchisiri kuita basa rayo, uye kunyanya kana vachinge vaona kuti vari kuitirwa nharo, vanozobaya switch uye voburitsa rwizi rwekushusha, runyoro rwekubata kumeso, kutsoropodza, kana zvimwewo. maitiro ekunyengera.
Ivo vanogona kusvetuka zvine mutsindo pakati peakasiyana mamoods kusvikira iwe usisakwanise kuziva wauri kupokana naye.
7. Kuvhiringidza Kusava Netsitsi
Kana iyo nharo yakanangana nevanhu kana zvimwe zvisikwa zvipenyu, chimiro che psychopath chinowanzo shaya kunzwira tsitsi kwerudzi rupi zvarwo.
Iwe unogona kunge uchikurukura nhamo dzevanhu vari munyika dzakasakadzwa nehondo, vakawirwa noutsotsi, kana kunyange nhamo dzeshamwari. Vangatopa mhosva avo vanotambura nekuda kwekutambura kwavo chaiko, zvisinei nekuti vaive nesarudzo here kana kutaura munhau iyi.
8. Kusanzwisisika Maonero Echokwadi
Sezvo iwe uchipokana ne psychopath, iwe unowana iwo manzwiro ekuti kwakamonyoroka sei maonero avo epasirese. Ivo vanowanzoona zvinhu zvakasiyana zvachose kune vamwe, uye ichi chakamonyaniswa chiono chechokwadi chinoumba hwaro hwekupokana kwavo.
Ivo havango gadzi chete risingazivikanwe maonero epasirese ivo pachavo vanofungidzira zvakaenzana zvakatsauswa ruzivo kusimbisa zvavanotenda uye kuzvisimbisa ivo pachavo nezvitsva.
Izvi zvinowanzoita kunge mafungiro ekuramba uye zvinogona kugara zvichionekwa pakati pevanyengeri vemamiriro ekunze, vorongerwa dzidziso, uye mamwe mapoka akadaro.
Ehe, kana iwe ukambozviwana uchikakavadzana nemumwe munhu anoratidzira mazhinji eaya maitiro, kune imwe chete, nzira inonzwisisika yekuita: rega kutaura uye kuzvibvisa panyama nharo. Zvinogona kusanzwika zvakanaka kubvuma nenzira iyi, asi ndiyo yega sarudzo kana iwe uchida kuchengetedza pfungwa dzako.
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