Ndakamira Ndichitsvaga Rudo Uye Rwakauya Rikandiruma Pamubhedha

Rudo imhuka inoda kuziva uye isinganzwisisike.

Asizve nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero, isu tese tiri pakutsvaga icho.

Pamwe hapana mweya kunze uko usingashuve kuve murudo.



Sevanhu, tese tinoshuvira kudiwa uye kudawo kudzorera. Saka zvine musoro kuti isu tinogara tiri panze pakufamba, tichitsvaga zvisingaperi kune mumwe wedu wemweya.

Inogona kunge ichinzwika kunge inopesana, asi kazhinji nzira inokurumidza yekuwana rudo ndeyekurega kuitsvaga.



Hupenyu hunongoda kuzvishandira nenzira iyoyo.

Mutambo wakanakira iwe uri kunze uko wakamirira. Ukangomira kuzvitsvaga, rudo irworwo ruri kuzokuruma padhongi rako chairo!

Ndozviziva sei izvi? Zvakanaka, zvakaitika kwandiri.



Wakagadzirira kana kwete, hezvino zvikonzero zvaunoda kuti umire kuvhima kwerudo.

1. Iwe Haugadzikane Pashoma Kupfuura Zvaunofanirwa

Kana iwe uchikurumidza kuwana rudo, unogona kupedzisira wadzikisa zviyero zvako nekuda kwekuti iwe wawana munhu anoda uye anowanikwa.

Munyika yanhasi yekufambidzana kwepamhepo izere neasinganzwisisike kana zvakanyanya, munhu 'asina kunyanya kushata' kamwe kamwe anoita kunge anogamuchirwa pakuenzanisa.

Asi iwe unofanirwa kuzvibvunza iwe kuti 'ndizvo chaizvo zvandiri kuda here?'

kutaura sei kana musikana achifarira

Hazvingave zviri nani kuramba usina kuroora kwechinguva chidiki kuti uwane mumwe munhu anokodzera rudo rwako nenguva?

Ini ndakamboda chaizvo zuva rekuita zvehurombo zvekuti ndakabvunza munhu wandisingazive.

Aive akapfuurisa kushamisa (vamwe vangati eccentric) ndokubuda kunze kweshamwari dzangu dzeseā€¦ uye ainhuwirira kuseka.

Pasina mubvunzo kutaura, ndakadzikisa zviyero zvangu ndikabhadhara mutengo wacho!

2. Unonetseka Zvishoma

Regedza kutarisa pamabhero emuchato uye chena mapikicha fenzi, uye ini pachezvangu ndinovimbisa kuti uchave uine kushushikana kudiki muhupenyu hwako.

Kana iwe uri kugara uchiedza kufadza vamwe vanhu uye kuhwina kwavo rudo, ndine chokwadi kuti wakaneta!

Kudanana ibasa rakawanda.

Tarisa iwe pachako kwechinguva. Mushure mezvose, vanhu vanokwezva kune avo vari kurarama hupenyu hwakazara uye hunofadza. Uchakwevera vanhu mukati usina kana kuyedza.

Makore andaive ndisina kuroora uye ndakanangana neni pachangu ndiwo makore andaive mune hutano hwakanakisa.

Zvinotaridza pachena izvozvi, asi pandakangomira kutarisira kana ndaive nemukomana ndakatanga kuzvitarisira.

3. Hauzowoneka Kupererwa

Uchida kana kwete, kana iwe uchigara uchivhima hukama hwako hunotevera, iwe unozoonekwa senge (kana zvizere) shuwa.

Vanhu vanogona kusevha kupererwa kubva mamaira kure uye vanokasira kunamatira chitupa kwairi.

Kubva ipapo vanhu vangarasikirwa nekukwezva kwauri kana kuyedza kutora mukana wako mamiriro.

Chero nzira, hazvina kunaka. Hapana munhu anoda kuoneka apererwa.

Ndaiziva musikana kamwechete akasvetuka kubva paukama kuenda kuhukama. Handifungi kuti akambopedza anopfuura mwedzi asina kuroora. Takamuseka ari kuseri kwake. Ndinoziva, ndinoziva - taityisa.

Zvinyorwa zvinoenderana (chinyorwa chinoenderera pazasi):

4. Unoziva Kuti Rudo Runogona Kupfuura Hwehukama

Kana iwe uri mhando yemunhu anogara achiedza kukwidziridza shamwari yega yega mune chimwe chinhu zvakare, ungangove ucharasikirwa pane zvinopfuura hukama chete.

Ivo vanhu vasina kumbofungidzirwa kuve chikamu chehupenyu hwako hwepamoyo vangadai vakave shamwari dzeupenyu hwese.

Nekuyedza kugadzira chimwe chinhu kubva pasina, unozopedzisira warasikirwa neshamwari idzodzo.

Uye ini ndinogona kukuudza kubva pane zvakaitika kwauri (zvakawanda, zvakawanda zvezviitiko zvega), dzimwe nguva shamwari dzakakosha zvakanyanya kupfuura hukama!

Imwe yeshamwari dzangu dzepamwoyo neni takaedza kudanana. Takaenda pane rimwe zuva, uye tinotenda kunaka kuti hazvina kushanda.

Ndinomuda, asi kwete 'nenzira iyoyo.' Ndiri kufara kwazvo kuti hatina kukanganisa hukama hwedu nekuyedza kuve chimwe chinhu zvakare. Ndiye mumwe weshamwari dzangu dzepamwoyo.

5. Unodzidza Kuzvida Iwe

Funga nezvazvo. Kana iwe uri kugara uchiedza kumanikidza hukama pasi pehuro wechero ani achateerera, pamwe hauna hunyanzvi hwekuzvivimba.

Kana iwe usingakwanise kufara kunze kwe hukama hwakazvipira , iwe unofanirwa kumira uye kufungisisa kuti nei izvi zviri.

Chinhu chakanakisa chaunogona kuzviitira iwe (uye wako wemangwana mweya) ndiko kudzidza kuzvida iwe pachako zvauri wega!

Hapana chakaipa nekushaya kuroora kana kuroorwa. Muchokwadi, rimwe zuva pasi pemugwagwa iwe unotarisa kumashure kune ako ega mazuva uye unotenda nekuda kwezviyeuchidzo.

Saka enda kune mamwe mabhawa uye makirabhu neshamwari dzako. Tamba nevanhu vasina kuroora vasina kuroorwa husiku hwese ASINA kuunganidza chero nhamba dzenhare.

Tora nguva uri wega nebhuku rakanaka kana bhaisikopo rakanaka. Zvigadzire iwe pachako. Nakidzwa. Kuzvivimba kwechokwadi kunowanikwa zvakasununguka nekufamba kwenguva.

Sezvineiwo, kuzvivimba kwechokwadi ndechimwe chehunhu hwakanyanya uye hunokwezva. Hazvizove nguva refu bhuku rako remazuva risati razadza.

Asi zvisati zvaitika, dzidza kuda iwe wega wega.

Pane nguva yandainyatsoda mukomana. Munin'ina wangu aive achiroora, uye rudo rwanga rwusingaonekwe kwandiri.

Ini ndakazadza matatu epa online kufambidzana profiles uye ndikatanga kubuda ndisina kuona misi. Mukomana wega wega wandaibuda naye aingova 'meh' chete. Hapana chimwe chazvo chaive knight mune inopenya nhumbi dzokurwa dzandakanga ndafananidzira mumusoro mangu.

Neraki, mushure memwedzi yakati wandei, ndakakura ndaneta ndikazvipa zororo. Ndakadzokera mukutasva bhiza uye kuverenga mabhuku. Ndakabuda mutown ndine vamwe vasikana. Ndakadzokera kune wangu wepamoyo, anonakidza-anoda ega uye kinda ndakakanganwa zvese nezve kufambidzana.

Mwedzi mitanhatu gare gare mukomana mutsva akatanga kubasa. Handizive zvakaitika, asi mukati memwedzi taive tichidanana. Nhasi, tave takaroora kwemakore mana.

Ini ndaive ndisina kana kufarira zvekudanana patakasangana. Iwe unoona, rudo chairwo rwakandiruma padhongi chaipo pandakanga ndisiri kutarisa!

Munhu wako akakwana ari kunze uko. Tese tine mumwe munhu kunze uko akamirira isu nekushivirira kuti timire kuvatsvaga.

Ivo vanoda kutiona tichinakidzwa neese hupenyu hunopa.

Fungidzira vanhu vaviri mumusoro mako. Mumwe anofara uye anozvishingisa aine zvido zvake neshamwari.

Mumwe wacho akasuruvara uye anonetseka. Uyu wechipiri anofunga kuti kuva wega ndicho chinhu chakaipisisa pasirese.

Ndeupi munhu anokwezva?

Yep - ndaifunga kuti uchapindura saizvozvo.

handinzwi sekunge ndiri wangu

Enda uve anofara, anozvivimba iye. Rudo rwunowana nzira yarwo muhupenyu hwako nekukurumidza zvakakwana.

Kana iwe uri chero chinhu seni, ichauya chaiko uye ikakuruma iwe padhongi paunenge usingatarisiri.

Kunyange zvakadaro hauna chokwadi chekumira kutsvaga rudo uye rega riwane iwe? Taura zvepamhepo kune hukama hukama kubva kuRelationship Gamba uyo anogona kukubatsira kuti uone zvinhu. Simply.