Kudzoka mukare Girisi, zvaifungidzirwa kuti kune mhando nomwe dzakasiyana dzerudo…
Kunyangwe hazvo zvinhu zvakawanda zvachinja kubva ipapo, zvese zvinomwe zvichiri kushanda kunharaunda yanhasi.
Tinogona kunge takavatumidza mazita zvishoma, kana kuseta paramita dzakasiyana dzedudziro dzavo, asi ivo vanomira vakasimba senzira dzatinogona kuwana rudo muhupenyu hwedu.
1. Siya
Vanhu vazhinji vanoziva izwi iri neimwe nzira, kunyangwe kana vasingazive zvarinoreva.
Izwi rekuti 'Eros' rine chekuita nerudo rwekuda, rwatinoziva mazuva ano se'rudo 'uye zvepabonde.
Rudzi urwu rwerudo rwunonyanya kutaurwa nezvarwo nezverudo ‘rukuru’, rwakaita serwakataurwa nezvarwo muDzepabonde neGuta nemamwe maratidziro erudo nemaRomcom eHollywood.
Saka, iri zano rinobva kupi? Zvakanaka, mungano dzekare dzechiGiriki, Eros inoitika kana mumwe munhu akarohwa nemuseve waCupid - izvi zvinotikonzera kuvira murudo .
Vazhinji vedu takanzwa nezvechimwe chinhu mumitsara iyi, uye ipfungwa yakanaka kwazvo!
Tichirondedzera izvi kumashure kuhupenyu hwazvino, vazhinji vedu vano'rohwa 'nemumwe munhu uye vanowira kwavari zvachose. Rudzi urwu rworudo rwunodya zvese ndirwo rwatinofunga kuti ndirwo rudo uye ndirwo runonyanya kuratidzwa munhau.
Izvi ndizvo chaizvo zvinonyanya kutsvaga-mhando yerudo - iri yakasimba uye ine shungu uye tinozvirasa pachedu kwariri zvachose.
kuita mukomana kukuremekedza
Urwu rudo runogona kuve rusina hutano mune dzimwe nzira , saka zvakakodzera kuchengeta zvaunotarisira zvichiongororwa uye kwete kuzvirega uchitorwa netariro dzakakwirira!
Izvo zvakati, isu tese tinokodzera kusangana kana imwe chete 'rudo rukuru' muhupenyu hwedu, saka kana ichinzwa zvakanaka, chiite izvo ...
2. Philia
Uku hakusi kwerudo, rudo rwepedyo, asi irwo rudo zvakadaro. 'Philia' ane hukama nehukama kana kufarira, zvinova ndizvo zvakaita mhando yerudo iyi.
Urwu ndirwo zvakare mhando yerudo rwatinarwo kune vedu hama kana shamwari dzakanaka - haisi yerudo mhando yerudo zvachose uye nekudaro yakamira kwenguva refu.
Panzvimbo pekungoputika kwenguva pfupi kwerudo rwepedyo kana rwepedyo, Philia ari maererano nekubatana kwenguva refu, senge chisungo chekuve mhuri.
Iri rudo runogona kufuratirwa dzimwe nguva, sezvo vazhinji vedu isu tichitarisa kudzingirira Eros-mhando yerudo. Isu tinofanirwa kutarisisa kunaPhilia hazvo, sezvo iri irwo rudzi rwe rudo ruchazogara uye ruchatigarisa takadzika uye takachengeteka muhupenyu hwedu.
Panzvimbo pekuisa pfungwa pakudanana kana panyama, zvinoenderana nezvisungo zvinogara kwenguva refu zvatinogona kugadzira nevaya vatiri padhuze navo (kusanganisira vatinodanana navo). Urwu rudo runofanira kukosheswa, sezvo rwuchiratidza zviratidzo zvehukama, rukudzo, uye tsitsi.
3. Storge
Nenzira imwecheteyo kuna Philia, urwu rudo rune hukama nemhuri. Kunyanya, inotsanangura nzira iyo vabereki vanoda vana vavo - iyo zvisingabvumirwi , kutarisira kusingaperi uye kuzvipira.
Urwu harusi rudo rwekutsamira munzira ipi neipi, sezvo urwu rudo runobva kumubereki zvisinei nemufambiro wemwana. Izvo ndezve kuzvipira uye nezve vabereki kuregerera vana vavo kune chero chinhu nezvose.
Vazhinji vedu tinosangana nerudzi urwu rwerudo pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwedu, kunyangwe zvichibva kuvabereki vedu kana kuburikidza nekuve vabereki isu pachedu.
Sevabereki, rudo urwu runogona kusanzwa sekunge rwuri chiriporipotyo - vamwe vanhu vanonetseka kuumba chisungo nevana vavo nekukurumidza. Kazhinji, zvakadaro, yakadzika midzi uye paine mamwe manzwiro anovhara kana kuiviga, vasingazive kana neimwe nzira.
Simba rerudo urwu rwakakura kwazvo zvekuti dzimwe nguva tinonetseka kurichengeta, ndosaka dzimwe nguva richiita senge tisiri kusangana narwo zvachose. Iripo, zvakadaro!
Funga nezvenyaya dzaunonzwa dzevanamai vachisimudza mota nemaoko avo asina maoko kuti vaponese vana vavo - pane chimwe chinhu chakasimba uye chinopfuura muStorge zvekuti kunyangwe miviri yedu inogona kuchinzwisisa pane dzimwe nguva.
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4. Agape
Uku ndiko kwakawanda kwemhando yekufungidzira yerudo uye chinhu chekutarisira panzvimbo pechimwe chinhu chatingave tichinzwa kare.
ndezvipi zvimwe zvinhu zvaunogona kuita kana iwe uchinetseka
Icho chinoreva mamiriro erunyararo mukuti isu tese tine rudo uye takazvipira. Uku ndiko kwakawanda kwenzira yeruzhinji-yerudo pane kuita-rudo-rwepedyo.
Inobatanidza pfungwa dzekusava neudyire uye kushandira chakanakira chikuru pane kutarisisa pane zvatinoda nezvido zvedu pachedu.
Nepo rudzi urwu rwerudo ruchirira rwakanaka uye rwakanaka, runowanzoonekwa sekushuva pane kuita chaiko.
Ehezve, kune zvakawanda zvakanaka kune urwu rudzi rwekuratidzira kwemanzwiro, mukuti tinobatsirwa zvakanyanya sevanhu - kuzviremekedza kwedu uye kuzviremekedza zvinowedzerwa uye tinonzwa zvakanaka nekuita zvakanaka.
Zvinogona kuve zvakaoma kuwana urwu rudzi rwerudo, uye zvakatonyanya kuoma kurigamuchira semunhu mumwechete, saka zviri nyore kushandira munharaunda.
Agape maficha muzvitendero zvakawanda kana mapoka emweya - ndezve tsitsi dzakachena uye nekupa chikamu chako kumusoro kuti ubatsire vamwe.
5. Pragma
Rudzi urwu rwerudo rungaratidzika serunoshungurudza pakutanga, asi rune nzvimbo munzvimbo zhinji dzehupenyu hwedu pane imwe nguva. Panzvimbo pekutarisa pane akakurisa madhiri ekuratidzira kana asina makondakita munzira dzechinyakare, ndirwo rudo rwunoumbwa kubva mukuda kwekuita kuti zvinhu zvishande.
Semuenzaniso, vaviri vakaroora vane vana vanogona kusangana nerudzi urwu rwerudo pane imwe nguva muhukama hwavo. Hazvireve hazvo kuti zvinoratidzira manzwiro anobatanidzwa pakati pevanhu vaviri, asi ndezvekuita kuti zvinhu zvishande uye kunamatira kwazviri nekuda kwekunaka kukuru - semuenzaniso. kugara zvakanaka kwevana.
Izvi zvinogona kushanda kana vanhu vanobatanidzwa vari papeji rimwe chete zvine hunhu, uye maererano nehunhu hunhu. Kunyangwe pangasave neakakura, mafayipi-e-rudo rwunotarisirwa nevanhu vazhinji, Pragma inogona kuramba iine zvakawanda zvakafanana maitiro.
Panofanira kuva rukudzo kuti mhando iyi yemanzwiro ishande sezvo inosiya vese vari vaviri vari panjodzi. Kune kusuwa kwerudzi urwu rwerudo, pakuti rwunonyanya kuitirwa mashandiro, asi zvakare zvinoratidza kusimba muhukama mune dzimwe nzira uye kuti pachine kutarisirwa kwakawanda nekunzwira tsitsi pakati peavo vanobatanidzwa.
6. Kuzvida
Imwe yemhando dzakakurumbira dzerudo mumakore mashoma apfuura, kuzvida yakakosha zvakanyanya kune vazhinji vedu.
Kazhinji, kuzvida pachako kunoonekwa sechinhu chikuru chehupenyu hwazvino - isu tine nguva yekuzvitarisira isu muzita rehupenyu hwedu.
zvekuita kana wakaboorwa kumba
Kuzvida-rudo kunogona kureva chero chinhu chinotibatsira kukura kana kuzvidzikamisa pachedu. Izvi zvinogona kutora zuva rekuzorora apo patinonzwa kuti tinoda kumisazve uye kuzorodza kunogona kunge kuri kupembera chiitiko chemagariro kana tikazviona tichinyanya kunetseka kana kugumbuka nezvazvo.
Kuwedzera kwekuziva nezvehutano hwepfungwa mumakore achangopfuura kwakatungamira mukuwedzera kukuru kwe'kuzvida 'uye' kuzvitarisira 'ma hashtag mumasocial media!
Ehezve, kune rumwe rutivi kune urwu rudzi rwerudo. Inogona kutaridzika seinoparadza nedzimwe nzira - inotipa pfungwa yekunyepa uye tinogona kuita 'vakuru-musoro' kana narcissistic.
Kunyanya, zvakadaro, inogona kuonekwa seyakanaka kwazvo. Kuve nesimba rekushanda pane kwedu-pfungwa kunoreva kuti tinogona kunatsiridza kuvimba kwedu, kuzviremekedza uye kuzviremekedza pachedu.
7. Ludus
Ludus zvinoreva mhando yerudo irwo rwuri kure nevaya vatatotaura. Panzvimbo perudo rusingaite, runotamba uye kazhinji runopfuura.
Iko hakuna kuzvipira kunosanganisirwa, chingori chimwe chinhu chinonakidza. Rudzi urwu rwe rudo runogona kukonzeresa kuvhiringidzika, sezvo dzimwe nguva kunoonekwa se chimwe chinhu chakazvipira kupfuura zvazviri - izvi imhaka yekuti Ludus achiri kugona kusanganisira hushamwari uye 'kudanana' kwerudo rwakaita saEros (rudo rukuru) pasina kuzvipira.
Rudzi urwu rwerudo rwakafanana nekutamba nekunyengedza kune hukama hwehukama uye kunakidzwa pane chero chinhu chakakomba kana nechinangwa chenguva refu.
Ehezve, izvi zvinogona kuve rwakareba rurefu rudo kana mapato ese akafunga kuti vanoshuvira kuti riwedzere kubatana kweEros-dhiraivha.
Iyi mhando nomwe dzerudo dzinogona kunge dzakakamurwa makore nemakore apfuura, asi dzichiri zvechokwadi nhasi. Vazhinji vedu vanozoona mazhinji eaya rudo, mune imwe nzira, pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwedu.
Kuve nekuziva izvo zvavari uye nemabatiro avanogona kuita isu zvinotipa mukana wakakura wekupa uye kugamuchira aya marudzi erudo.
Zvinogona kunge zvisingaite sezvazviri ikozvino, kunyanya kana iwe wakave nenguva yakaoma nerudo munguva yakapfuura, asi iri kunze kune munhu wese . Uye, yeuka - paunonyanya kupa rudo, paunonyanya kudzoka.
