11 Mienzaniso YeUpenyu Chinangwa Chirevo Chaunogona Kugamuchira

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Mubhuku rake 'Man's Search for Meaning,' akapona paHolocaust uye chiremba wepfungwa Viktor Frankl akataura kuti munhu anogona kumira chero chero chinhu chero bedzi aine chinangwa chekushandira.



Saka chii chinoitika kana tisingazive kuti chinangwa chedu ndechei, chaizvo?

Vanenge isu tese takanetseka nepfungwa yechinangwa chedu pane imwe nguva kana imwe.



Kune vamwe, zvinogona kuitika kusekondari, apo hupenyu hunenge huri hwekuedza kufunga zvekuita nemakore makumi mana anotevera. Vamwe vanogona kutarisana nenhamo yavo mushure medambudziko rehutano kana chiitiko chakakura chehupenyu senge kurasikirwa nebasa, kurambana, kana kufirwa.

Pane imwe nguva, isu tese tinotarisa mugirazi uye tinozvibvunza kuti:

“Chii chandiri kufanira kunge ndichiita nehupenyu hwangu? Ndinoda kuva ani? Inhaka ipi yandinoda kusiya? ”

Zvese izvi zvinogona kuve zvinotyisa, uye zvinogona zvakare kukurudzira kwakaringana kushushikana kana mhinduro ikasauya ipapo ipapo.

Tinogona kunzwa kurasika tisina pfungwa yechinangwa, kana kunzwa sekunge tiri kudhonzwa pamwe neruzha rwusinganzwe zvakanaka, asi isu hatizive zvekuita nezvazvo.

Kana iwe uri kuyedza kutsvaga hupenyu hwako chinangwa uye iwe uchinzwa wakanamatira, izvo zvakanaka. Ndosaka tiri pano kuti tibatsirane, handizvo?

Mawaniro Aungaita Hupenyu Hwako Chinangwa

Edza kuseta imwe nguva padivi paunenge usinga shungurudzwe nevamwe, uye iwe usina zvinomanikidza zvekuzvipira kuti uite.

Tora bhuku rako uye nyora pasi zvinhu zvese zvakakosha kwauri. Kwete zvinhu zvaunofarira chete, asi zviitwa zvinoita kuti unzwe kudada nezvako, zvinhu zvaunoita kubatsira vamwe vanhu… zvinhu chaizvo zvinoita kuti unzwe kuzadzikiswa.

Tevere, nyora yako yega vhezheni ye 'bhaketi rondedzero,' asi tarisa zvakanyanya pazvinhu zvaungade kuwana muhupenyu hwako , pane kungova nezvinhu zvaungade kusangana nazvo.

Funga nezvezvinhu zvakaita sekuda kumisikidza nzvimbo yemhuka yemusango, kana kuzivikanwa nekugadzira mutsetse wemasosi anopisa, pane kusangana nezvazviri kuita kumatenga kushama.

zviratidzo anokwezva kwauri mutauro wemuviri

Ini Ndingave Nayo Anopfuura Anopfuura Hupenyu Hune Chinangwa?

Uri kukumbira mvumo yaani? Uri kutsvaga kusimbiswa kubva kune vamwe vanhu nezve mangani akasiyana zvinangwa zvaunotenderwa kuve nazvo?

Wadiwa moyo, iwe unogona kuve nezvakawanda zvinangwa, zvirevo, uye zvinangwa sezvaunoda.

Kuva nehupenyu hwakawanda zvishuwo hazvingogone, zvinokatyamadza. Semuenzaniso, panguva yeRenaissance, kuve polymath (mumwe munhu anokunda pane zvakawanda zvinoitwa) zvaitarisirwa uye kukurudzirwa. Izvo zvaingova zvakafanira nguva pfupi yadarika kuti hyper-inotarisa pane chimwe chakatarwa chinangwa kana basa rave kutarisirwa.

Vanhu vari, nehunhu hwedu chaihwo, zvisikwa zvinogoneka zvine zvido zvakasiyana uye hunyanzvi seti. Saka wadii kuva nechinangwa chinopfuura chimwe?

Munhu anofanira kukwanisa kuchinja manapukeni, kuronga kupinda nechisimba, kubaya nguruve, kuunganidza ngarava, kugadzira chivakwa, kunyora sonnet, kuenzanisa maakaundi, kuvaka rusvingo, kuisa pfupa, kunyaradza vanofa, kutora mirairo, kupa kuraira, kushandira pamwe, kuita wega, gadzirisa equations, ongorora dambudziko nyowani, pfumisa mupfudze, kuronga komputa, kubika chikafu chinonaka, kurwa zvinobudirira, kufa nekushinga. Nyanzvi ndeyezvipembenene.- Robert A. Heinlein

Ngatitarisei mamwe mazwi ane simba ehupenyu chinangwa. Pamwe iwe unowana iyo inogona kukurudzira yako wega mukusangana, kana zvirinani kukupa iwe pekutanga pekutsvaga yako!

1. 'Ini ndinomiririra nyaya dzandinotenda mazviri, uye ndinotaurira avo vasingakwanise kuzvitaurira.'

Rudzi urwu rwehupenyu chirevo chinangwa chirevo chakanakira vanhu kune avo kururamisira nengoni zvakakosha kwazvo.

Semuenzaniso, vanhu vanoda kushanda nemasangano akaita seAmnesty International, kana mapoka akasiyana ekodzero dzemhuka.

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Uri kufunga nezvekutsvaga basa repamutemo here? Kana kuti pamwe ungade kuzvipira iwe kununura mhuka, kana kutsvaga mari kune veterans, kana kutozvipira kune vasina pekugara zvirongwa?

Uine iyi seyako mantra, unosungirwa kuita shanduko dzinoshamisa kuti dziitike munyika.

2. 'Ini ndakatsunga kusiya nyika ndiri nani kupfuura zvazvino.'

Iwe uri murwiri wezvakatipoteredza here? Iwe unotakura masaga emabhegi muhomwe yako kana iwe uchienda kunokwira kuitira kuti ugone kutora nekurasa marara evamwe vanhu?

Ipapo chirevo chakadai chinogona kunge chiri chakakodzera kukodzera.

Chemai kumatenga kana iwe uchikanda mbeu dzemabhomba muminda isina chinhu yekudyara maruva epolinator maruva, kana kuchenesa mafuta araswa pasi rese.

3. 'Ndinoda kutaura nyaya dzinoshamisa, uye kukurudzira vamwe vanhu nekunyora kwangu'

Iwe uri munhu wenyaya wenyaya here? Iwe unorota here kunyora inoverengeka (kana akateedzana enoveli!) Ayo anozobatanidza vanhu kwemakore anouya? Izvo zvakanaka kwazvo.

Nyika inokurudzirwa nenyaya, uye makuru acho anoudzwa nekudzokororwa kwezvizvarwa. Ndiri kureva, ivo vachiri kuita kudzokorora uye kuchinjika kweBeowulf, uye izvo zvakanyorwa makore chiuru apfuura.

'' Ini ndakadanwa kuzvipira kumweya wangu, nekubatsira vamwe vari munzira imwechete neni. '

Kune zvitendero zvakasiyana uye nemweya nzira dzakatenderedza pasirese, uye vese vane vateveri avo vakatsaurira hupenyu hwavo kuita zvemweya.

Kana iwe uchikweverwa kuhupenyu hwepamweya, iwe unogona kuzviwana iwe uchida kupinda mu ashram, convent, kana monastery.

Kana kuti pamwe ungade kunyudza muzvidzidzo zvechitendero kuti udzidzise vamwe.

Kana iwe uine iyi mhando yekufona, saka chirevo chehupenyu hupenyu chinosanganisira zvaunotenda zvinogona kuva sosi huru yesimba uye kurudziro kwauri.

5. “Ini ndichagadzira mabasa anoshamisa eumhizha ayo vanhu vanogona kunakidzwa kwemazana emakore anotevera. Ndiyo nhaka yandinoda kusiya: runako. '

Wakamboona here kuti mazhinji evashanyi anotenderera epasi rese akapoterera hunyanzvi nekuvakwa?

Mamirioni avanhu vanodirana kuTaj Mahal, iyo Louvre, Florence, uye kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzisingaverengeke kwavanogona kuzorora mukunaka kwakagadzirwa nevamwe vanhu.

Vanyori, vagadziri, uye vagadziri vakagadzira mabasa echishamiso chakazara, mamwe acho anga achizadza vanhu nekutya kwemazana, kunyange zviuru zvemakore.

Kana iwe ukafemerwa kuti ugadzire runako rwakadai, saka ichi chokwadi chirevo chemishoni kwauri.

6. 'Ndiri kuronga kuva shanduko yandiri kuda kuona munyika ino.'

Ichi chirevo chehupenyu hwakazara, asi chine simba zvakadaro.

Kana iwe uchinetseka kuti unzwisise chaizvo zvauri kuda kuita, asi iwe uchiziva kuti iwe unoda kuita chimwe chinhu kuita kuti nyika ive nzvimbo iri nani, saka ino yakanaka yakanaka yekutangisa.

Mushure mezvose, unogona kugara uchichinja mafambiro kana iwe wave kufamba. Chinokosha kutanga uye kuwana simba, handiti?

7. 'Ndinoda kuporesa avo vari kurwadziwa.'

Chirevo chehupenyu hupenyu senge ichi chinokodzera chero munhu anoda kuve webasa munzvimbo yekurapa.

Izvi zvinogona kuporesa panyama, senge chiremba wechiremba kana wemuviri / wekusimbisa mushonga. Neimwe nzira, inogona kusanganisa kurwadziwa kwepfungwa, kwepamoyo, kana pamweya, senge kunogona kudzikiswa nekurapwa kwepfungwa, kurairwa, kana kumwe kutsigirwa kusiri kwemuviri.

Kana iwe uchikweverwa kuhunyanzvi hwekurapa, uye uchida kudzikisira vamwe vanhu kutambura, saka yakapusa meseji chirevo senge ichi chingave chiri icho chauri kutsvaga.

8. 'Ndichavaka imba ine rudo yemhuri yangu, uye nekutsigira zviroto zvevana vangu nekuedza.'

Aya marudzi ezvinyorwa zvehupenyu zvine chinangwa kune avo kune avo mhuri nekurera vana vari pamberi pekutanga.

Kana vana vako vari nyika yako, uye iwe uchida kupira hupenyu hwako mukurera (uye pakupedzisira sekuru), ipapo chimwe chinhu chiri mutsinga iyi chinogona kukukodzera iwe zvakanaka.

Vabereki, vachengeti, uye vabereki vokurera vanogona kubatsira kumisikidza hwaro hwevamwe hupenyu hwehupenyu hwese uye kubudirira.

Kurera vana, chokwadika, rimwe remabasa akaomesesa, asi zvakare ndeimwe yemubairo wakanyanya.

9. 'Ndinoda kutambirwa nekugona pamabasa angu, uye kuenda pamudyandigere ndichiziva kuti ndapa mipiro inoshamisa kumunda wangu wehunyanzvi.'

Kana iwe wawana basa raunonyatsoda, uye ungade kupira hupenyu hwako kwariri, saka zvakanakisa! Iwe wawana chinangwa chako, uye chirevo icho chinobatsira kukuchidzira iwe.

Pese paunenge uine zuva rakaipa, uye kana vaunoshanda navo kana mapurojekiti auri kushanda ari kuita kuti unzwe kuora mwoyo, rangarira chirevo ichi.

Muchokwadi, edza kuchipurinda mune chaiyo yakasarudzika typeface uye kuinamira pamusoro petafura yako.

10. 'Ndinovavarira kushandisa hunyanzvi hwangu kupa vane nzara, uye kudzidzisa vanhu marimirwo ezvekudya ivo pachavo neremumwe.'

Chikafu chako chishuwo here? Iwe unoda here kubatsira kupedza nzara, uye netarisiro yekushongedza vamwe nehunyanzvi hwavanoda kuti vazvidze ivo nemhuri dzavo?

Wobva warega chirevo chehupenyu seichi chinokukurudzira.

Kuchengetedzwa kwechikafu inyaya inogona kubata munhu wese pasirese pane imwe nguva, saka kuziva kurima nekubika chikafu pachedu kunokosha.

Uye kana iwe uchikwanisa kudzidzisa hunyanzvi uhu kune vamwe, unogona kugadzira shanduko yakanaka kwazvo munyika ino.

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11. 'Ndinoda kuunganidza ruzivo, ndobva ndugoverana nevamwe.'

Unobudirira here muchikoro? Uye unoda here kugovera zvese zvawakadzidza nevamwe vanhu? Ipapo kudzidzisa kunonzwika senge hwakajeka hupenyu hupenyu chinangwa kwauri.

Kune huwandu hunoshamisa hwehungwaru uye ruzivo kunze uko munyika. Zvakawanda kuwana, uye kufarira mukati, uyezve ugovana nevamwe.

Kunyangwe chinangwa chako chiri chekudzidzisa, kana kunyora, iwe unosungirwa kuwedzera zvisingaverengeki kutenderera nemabasa ako.

Rangarira kuti chinangwa chako chinogona kuchinja kakawanda pamusoro pehupenyu hwako. Izvo zvakanyatsonaka, uye hapana chekushamisika pamusoro pazvo.

Mushure mezvose, isu tese tiri kuramba tichikura uye tichichinja, uye zviitiko zvedu zvinogona kutikurudzira kuti tifambe nenzira inoshamisa kamwe chete kana kaviri.

Kana izvi zvikaitika, tora nguva yekuzvibatanidza uye wobva wadzokorora maitiro akafanana zvakare.

Tarisa uone kwauri, kwaunoda kuve, waunoda kuva, uye kuti unoda kufambira mberi sei. Wobva wagadzira chirevo chehupenyu hutsva kana mantra yekukukurudzira iwe, kuupwanya pamadziro, uchishevedzera kumatenga, uye kusvetukira kumberi muhupenyu hutsva ihwohwo.

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