Amai vangu pavakashaya uye isu taive tichityaira kumba kubva kuchipatara, ndinorangarira ndichitarisa tarisa uye ndichizvibvunza kuti hupenyu hwaizofamba sei.
Yakanga iri nguva yekudya kwemanheru uye vanhu vaienderera nemanheru avo. Ndakaona vanhu vachipinda mumaresitorendi, vachinyemwerera uye vakabata maoko, magwara emigwagwa aive akajairika, uye nzvimbo dzezvitoro dzaive dzakazara. Vanhu vaienda kunodya uye kurarama hupenyu hwavo. Ini ndaida kuridza mhere, 'How can you act like everything is normal? Amai Vangu vakangofa. Hapana chinozove chakafanana zvakare. ”
Asi, ini ndaisakwanisa, nekuti kwavari, zvese zvainge zvakafanana. Kana iwe wakada mumwe munhu uye zvinosuruvarisa, akarasikirwa navo, ndine chokwadi kuti wakamboona chimwe chinhu chakafanana neichi. Zvakaoma kuda munhu nemoyo wako wese, uyezve rimwe zuva, kumanikidzwa kugara munyika isina ivo.
Mune dzimwe nzira, iko kukanganisa kwehupenyu: kuda vanhu uye dzimwe nguva kurasikirwa navo.
Nepo hupenyu hwangu hwakashandurwa zvachose zuva rakashayika Amai vangu, hupenyu hwevanhu vazhinji munyika hauna kuchinja musi uyu.
ndoziva sei kana ndichiyevedza
Hupenyu hwakaenderera, nekuti hupenyu hunoenderera.
Pave nemakore anopfuura gumi nematanhatu kubva paakashaya, uye ndinomusuwa mazuva ese. Ini ndinogona kutaura kuti nguva inobatsira: marwadzo anoderera uye ndakadzidza kurarama nekurasikirwa kwangu. Ndangariro dzandinadzo dzekurwara kwake dzadzikira, uye zvasara ndidzo ndangariro dzakanaka. Izvo ndizvo zvandinoziva kuti angade kuti ndirangarire.
zvekuita kana kusuruvara kukatanga
Kana iwe wakarasikirwa nemumwe munhu waunofarira nezvake unoziva kuti zvakaoma sei. Inogona kunzwa kunetsa zvakakwana kujairira kurarama pasina ivo, asi mazuva 'akakosha' akaomesesa. Ndiwo mazuva ekurasikirwa kwedu kunowedzera kukwidziridzwa. Idzi ndidzo nguva dzatinoshuvira izvo 'zvaimbove' uye kunzwa kushushikana.
Kupemberera zororo kekutanga pasina munhu waunoda kunorwadza. Iwe unofunga nezve makore apfuura uye unobata zviyeuchidzo zvako padyo. Ndinoyeuka zororo rekutanga randakasangana naro ndisina Amai vangu. Yaiva yekutenda. Ini ndaive mumvura dzisingazivikanwe, munyika inokanganisa uye isina kugadzikana, uye ndakanga ndisingazive kuti ndoita sei nazvo. Handina kuda kuita basa nazvo.
Gore rekutanga rezororo rekutanga igore rakaoma. Kunyangwe iwe uchizotya yega yega iri kuuya zororo uye kufunga nezve makore apfuura, iwe unofanirwa kuyeuka izvi zvakajairika. Zvakanaka kuti unzwe wakasuruvara, uchifunga nezve zvakapfuura, uye dai zvinhu zvasiyana.
Kunyangwe ndichiziva kuti hazvisi nyore, heano mamwe matipi akandibatsira kupfuura nemumazuva akaomesesa aya:
Tsvaga nzira yekuunza mudiwa wako mumhemberero yako yezororo.
Izvo hazvizoite kuti iwe uzvishaye chero zvishoma, asi zvinogona kuita kuti zvinhu zvinzwe kuve nyore zvishoma.
andre iyo hofori hulk hogan quote
Pane here yakasarudzika nzira iyo ambuya vako yaimbogocha? Kudya kwakakosha uko mhuri yako yaigara ichigovana gore rega rega pane rimwe zororo? Kuenderera mberi netsika iyi, kunyangwe iwe uchifanira kuzviita pasina mudiwa wako, ndiyo nzira yekuvachengeta newe. Kunyangwe zvisiri kuzove zvakafanana, zvinoita kuti unzwe uri padyo navo.
Ambuya vangu vaigara vachigadzira muto wakakosha wezororo. Kunhuwirira kwesobho kunondiyeuchidza nezvehudiki hwangu, zvemakore apfuura, uye kunondifadza nendangariro. Ndine kamukira, uye pandinoita supu iyi kumhuri yangu, ndinonzwa sekunge ndiri kuunza Ambuya vangu muhupenyu hwedu. Zvinondifadza kukwanisa kuudza vana vangu, 'Iyi ndiyo nzira yandakambogadzirirwa naambuya vangu.'
Kushandisa ndiro nemachira zvaive zvaAmai vangu zvinoita kuti ndinzwe sekunge vari kunyemwerera pasi pandiri. Kugadzika tafura yezororo sezvaaiita kugadzira tafura ndiyo nzira yekuti ndiuye naye mumhemberero yedu. Ndinoziva kuti angatorerwa, uye ndinoziva kuti angafara mhuri yangu iri kunakidzwa nezvinhu zvake.
Tora chinguva panguva yekupemberera zororo kuti utaure nezve munhu wawakarasikirwa.
Izvo zvakanaka, panguva yemhemberero yemhuri, kutora nguva yekurangarira avo vanhu vakapfuura. Mumhuri yangu, panguva yekudya kuzororo, tichataura mazita evanhu vasisipo nesu. Dzimwe nguva, tinotora chinguva chinyararire kuti tivayeuke. Kupota uchitenderera tafura uye uchigovana ndangariro inosetsa ndiyo imwe nzira yekuunza vadikani vako mune ino mhemberero. Ratidza kuti chii chinoshanda kwauri nemhuri yako, uye wozviedza. Kunyangwe zvisingazoite kuti uvarasikirwe zvishoma, zvinoita kuti unzwe senge vanewe.
Unogona zvakare kuda (chinyorwa chinoenderera pazasi):
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- Maitiro Ekuwana Zvinoreva Mukuzviuraya Kweiye Waunoda
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- 3 Makotesheni Nezve Simba & Ushingi Kune Paunonzwa Iwe Haugone Kuenderera Mberi
Gadzira tsika nyowani.
Amai Vangu vaigara vachifarira kudya inopisa fudge sundaes. Pazuva rake rekuzvarwa, gore rega rega uye gore rega rega, mhuri yangu ine ice cream sundaes. Iyo nzira yekuti isu tipemberere zuva rake rekuzvarwa nekuita chimwe chinhu chaangadai akazviitira iye. Inoita inokosha uye inobvumira vana vangu kuyeuka Amai vangu nenzira inonakidza. Takatanga tsika iyi vana vangu vachiri vadiki, uye handifunge kuti tichazombomira.
Funga nezve chimwe chinhu chinonakidza, icho iwe nemhuri yako chaunogona kunakidzwa nekuita pamwechete, icho chinokubatsira kuyeuka mudiwa wako.
Zviitiko zvikuru zvakaoma.
Ini handisi kuzokunyepera, hupenyu hupenyu zviitiko zvakaoma. Kana paine chiitiko chakakura, senge muchato kana kubhabhatidza, kudhinda zita remudiwa wako muchirongwa inzira yakanaka yekuvaunza mumhemberero. Ndakaona izvi zvichiitwa nguva zhinji zvakanaka kuziva munhu uye zvinobatsira kuvaita chikamu chemhemberero. Paive nerwiyo rwakakosha rwavaigara vachida? Ridza rwiyo irworwo pamutambo. Vakanakidzwa nechikafu chakati here? Shumira icho kumafaro. Iva neunyanzvi.
Iko kune nguva dzose nzira dzakakosha dzaungayeuke munhu wawakarasikirwa.
Tenderedza nevanhu vanokuda uye vane hanya newe, uye enda nyore pachako.
Usazvitongesa wega nekunzwa 'bhuruu,' uye zvipe nguva nenzvimbo yekunzwa kusuruvara. Zvakaoma kurasikirwa nemumwe munhu waunoda, uye kuyedza kuzvivhara kana kuvhara kusuruvara kwako hakubatsire. Kushungurudzika kunogona kuita kwakaoma, asi nguva inobatsira. Kurasikirwa nemumwe munhu chikamu chakaoma chehupenyu, asi zvinosuwisa, chikamu chakakosha. Zvipe iwe nguva nekushivirira, rega iwe pachako unzwe kusuruvara uye kuvasuwa, uyezve edza kuyeuka nguva dzakanaka.
sei kurega kuomerera uye godo
Iwe unofanirwa kutanga tsika nyowani uye nekuita ndangariro nyowani. Kuedza kufunga kuti ungaita sei izvi hazvisi nyore. Kunyangwe ndichisuwa Mai vangu mazuva ese, ndinotenda izvo zvandaive nazvo. Ini handitarise pane kurasikirwa, asi kuti ndakaita rombo rakanaka sei kuve iye mwanasikana wake. Ndinoziva kuti vaizoda kuti ndishandise zuva rega rega rehupenyu hwangu, uye havadi kuti ndipedze nguva yangu ndichichema ndichigara pakurasikirwa kwangu. Une chikwereti kwauri kuti ushandise zvakanakisa zuva rega rega rehupenyu hwako, kunyangwe kana zvichireva kurarama usina munhu waunoda.
Wakatambura here mushure mekufirwa nemunhu waunoda? Wakadhonza sei? Siya mhinduro pazasi kuti ugovane zvaunofunga uye zvakaitika.
