Usadaro.
Joking, joking… but in all serious, striking up a random conversation with a total introvert zvinogona kunetsa kufamba. Kunyangwe ma introverts achiwanzo akangwara kwazvo, vanhu vakanaka vanoita shamwari dzakanaka, kumisikidza kubatana neumwe kunogona kutyisa.
MaIntroverts anowanzo gara mumisoro yavo zvakanyanya, uye vanogona kunyara kuvhurira vanhu vatsva, kana kungotadza kutenda nekuita saizvozvo. Izvi hazvireve kuti havadi kusangana nevamwe, asi kuti zvinotora nguva kuti vasiye masvingo avo vorega vamwe vanhu vapinde. Izvi dzimwe nguva zvinotungamira kune vamwe kuti vafungidzire kuti vanopinza vane chando, vanomira, kana kutotuka, kana chaizvo ivo vari kungozeya pakati pekuzvidzivirira pachavo pamoyo, uye vachitarisira kuti havangadzipwe nechinwiwa chavo kana kutaura chimwe chinhu chakanyanyisa kuuraya icho chinozovatambudza narini.
Dzidza Kuziva Introverts Around You
Kana usati wawana mufaro wevanhu vanoona paunenge wabuda uye nezve, edza imwe nguva. Ingo tarisa vamwe kana iwe uri kuchitoro chekofi kana kubhawa, kana chero imwe nzvimbo iyo vanhu vanowanzo kuungana.
Iwe ungango cherekedza kuti pane musiyano wakakura pakati pekuti zvakasikwa zvakasarudzika uye zvekutanga zvinofambidzana sei nevamwe. Pano zviri pachena kuti hapana mhedziso pano, sezvo chiyero chekutanga / chekuwedzera chiri chakakura uye chine akasiyana akasiyana, asi kazhinji uchakwanisa kuona mamwe maitiro ehunhu anowanzoenderana neavhareji introvert.
Paunenge ugere wega paresitorendi, anokwenenzvera anogona kuzvimisikidza pachezvake, anotarisa kumusoro kazhinji, uye obatana nevaya vakavakomberedza. Vanogona kunge vasina kugadzikana, vachirova tsoka kana kurova zvigunwe patafura, uye vasina chekutya nezvekutaura nevanhu vasingazivikanwe vangangogara padhuze navo. Mikana ndeyekuti kana ivo vari kuchitoro chekofi vari vega, ivo vari kungomirira shamwari imwechete kana sere kuti vasangane navo, panguva iyoyo vanozobatana mukukurukurirana kwehupenyu pamwe chete.
Introverts, kune rimwe divi, vanogarika nekugara vega uye kunyarara. Vanogona kukomberedza pachigaro chinonyaradza mukona uye vonyura zvakanyanya mubhuku ravari kuverenga, kana kutarisisa zvakanyanya pane chero zvavari kushandira zvekuti vanenge vasingazive zvakapoteredza. Kuvhiringidza reverie iyi neruzha rwekuvhura tambo kunogona kuvashamisa nenzira isiri-inotyisa-inofadza. Uchasangana ne 'mhembwe mumwenje' kutaura semunhu wauri kutaura naye achiedza kusarudza kukanda chinwiwa chako kwauri usati wakiya musuwo, kana kungovanda pasi petafura kusvikira waenda.
Saizvozvowo, kana iwe ukaenda kumafaro kumba kwemumwe munhu, mikana ndeyekuti vaviri vekutanga vachange vachirembera kunze mukicheni, vachinyemwerera kwenguva pfupi apo vamwe vanhu vanopinda, asi vachitarisa zvakanyanya pakuita kushamwaridzana nekatsi yemumba.
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Iti Chimwe Chinhu Chisina Kwawakarerekera
Kana uchirova hurukuro neyakavanzika, zviri nani kudzivisa kurumbidza kwakananga pamusoro pavo. Usavaudze kuti vanopisa zvakadii, kana kuti iwe haugone kubatsira asi kuvaona kubva mhiri kwekamuri, blah blah, nekuti izvo zvinobva zvangoonekwa seyakaremara yekutora mutsara iri. Kunze kwemutemo wekuti 'usarumbidze' ndewekuti kana vakapfeka chimwe chinhu chinotonhorera, kana kana paine chinhu pane imwe nzvimbo padhuze nemunhu wavo icho chinokanganisa kuziva kwako. Semuenzaniso, kana ivo vakapfeka shangu dzinoyevedza, unogona kupindura pane kwavo kutyisa uye kubvunza kuti vakazvitora kupi.
Iva munhu, uye usazviputira nekutaura kudiki. Kana ivo vari kuverenga bhuku, funga kuvabvunza nezvaro nemwoyo wakanaka uye zvine mutsigo. Kutaura chimwe chinhu chakadai 'Unoratidzika kunge uri mubhuku iro. Kwakanaka here? ” inzira isina kwayakarerekera, isingatyisidzi iyo inovhura musuwo wekutaurirana pasina kuita kuti chero munhu anzwe achizvifunga kana kusagadzikana. Kana usati waverenga bhuku racho, usanyepedze kuti une: mubvunzo wakareruka pamusoro pezvawaifunga nezve X chimiro kana chakanyanya kusanzwisisika chinzvimbo chinoratidza nzira yako yekushinyira uye haugone kumanikidza rimwe izwi kubva kwavari.
Kubvunza maonero avo inzira yakanaka yekuvhura musuwo wehurukuro inobata zvakanyanya nekuti ma introverts anoshandisa nguva yakawanda kufunga nezve zvinhu. Tora chiratidzo chako kubva kune chimwe chinhu chavari kuita, kana chimwe chezvinhu zvavo. Kana ivo vachiverenga bhuku nezve gadheni, unogona kugara uchivabvunza kana vaine gadheni remuriwo ravo. Kana zvirizvo, bvunza zvavanorima, bvunza nezve akasiyana marudzi anokura mudunhu rako. Kufarira kwechokwadi kuchavakurudzira kuvhura zvishoma, uye iwe unogona kushamisika nekushinga kwavanogona kuwana nezvenyaya yavanoda.
Iyi nzira inoshanda chaizvo chaizvo kana iwe uri wekutanga zvakare: ingo funga maitiro aungade kusvikirwa neumwe munhu, uye ita izvozvo. Kutendeseka. Ingozviedza.
Ramba uri Kure Kure
Zvishoma zvinhu zvinokamba introvert chaiko gehena kunze zvakanyanya sekuswedera padhuze munzvimbo yavo yega. Vazhinji vanofarira kuve nekanaka, yakafara nzvimbo pakati pavo nevamwe vanhu kudzamara vagadzikana zvakakwana kuti vapinde 'mukati', saka kana mutorwa akangoerekana azembera padhuze, achikwenya kunge shark inopenga, vanoenda mukusvinura kukuru.
Zvakatoipisisa kupfuura kuswedera padhuze padhuze nekukurumidza zvakanyanya kubata zvisina kukumbirwa. Wepakati extrovert achabata mumwe munhu wavari kutaura kanoverengeka panguva yekukurukurirana. Izvi zvinogona kuratidzwa sekusundidzira mumwe munhu negokora, nekuzvibata paruoko, kana kuzvibata paruoko kana pamabvi kuti uite kubatana panyama pavanenge vachitaura. (Kana iwe ukanyatsoteerera izvozvi, unogona kunzwa hafu yegumi nemaviri mahedheni ekuburitsa mamwe marefu-akakwenya mhere pakufunga kweizvi.)
Chengeta maoko ako pachako, uye usazvibata kunze kwekunge vatanga kuonana newe kutanga.
Rega Ivo Vagone Kutevera
Kana hurukuro ikafamba zvakanaka, vape iwo mukana wekuenderera nayo pane imwe nguva, kana kuburikidza neimwe nzira. Usango enda unovabvunza kunze (ona 'nondo mumwenje', zvambotaurwa), asi vaudze kuti ungade kutaura nezve X chidzidzo zvakare mushure.
Kana uine kadhi rebhizinesi, inzwa wakasununguka kuvapa kuti vakwanise kudonhedza email kana mameseji gare gare. Iwe unogona kubvunza kana ivo vakatonhorera nekugovana yemagariro enhau mubato newe: ingo ita shuwa kuti iwe unosiya simba rekubatana mumaoko avo.
Usatsamwe kana Vasingade Kutaura
MaIntroverts anongova nesimba rakawandisa rekuburitsa kana zvasvika pakufambidzana nevamwe, uye zvinogona kunge zviri izvo kuti iwe wauri kufarira kushamwaridzana naye 'vanhu' kunze kwezuva racho. Kuratidzika kwavo kwekushaya kwekufarira kwakanyanya mukana wekuti mamiriro ekudhonzwa pane kusava nehanya, saka kana vasingade kutaura, kunyemwerera uye kufamba pamwe kumwe kunhu.
Gara uchifunga kuti ichi chidiki chekupedzisira chezano hachiendi chete kune vekutangisa, asi kune chero munhu waungade kuti uzive. Hapana munhu aripo pane zvinofarirwa nemumwe munhu, uye nekuda kwekuti UNODA kutaura NAVO hazvireve kuti ivo vanosungirwa kuzviita kuitira kuti iwe ufare. Kutendeseka kunoenda kure, uye kana ukadzokera kure nekudyidzana kuratidza kuti unoremekedza kuzvimiririra kwemumwe munhu, unogona kunyatsoona kuti vanotora danho rekubatana newe gare gare.
Iwe uri wekutanga uyo anovenga iwo asina kujeka ekutanga sumo? Zano riri pamusoro apa rinonzwika seriri kwauri here? Siya chirevo pazasi nemafungiro ako.
