Munhu akarara padivi pemudiwa wavo akarara anogona kuve nekamwe kamwe fungidziro yepfungwa yekuti zvingava nyore sei kuvauraya muhope. Pfungwa iyoyo ingangovatyisidzira uye kuvatsamwisa. Vanogona kurara vakasvinura husiku hwese, vachishamiswa nekufunga kwakadai.
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Pane here chakakanganisika zvakanyanya navo pakufunga chinhu chakadai?
Idzi ndidzo pfungwa dzekutanga nyevero dzekuti vave kupenga serial killers?
Vane shuwa yekusaziva yekuuraya mumwe wavo here?
Zvakanaka, kwete. Random - uye kazhinji zvine mhirizhonga kana zvimwe zvinokanganisa - fungidziro dzakadai seidzi dzinozivikanwa se 'pfungwa dzekupindira,' uye munhu wese anadzo.
Munhu wese.
Ivo vanowanzo tenderera isu kunze pavanoratidza kumusoro, sezvo ivo vachiwanzo buda pasina nzvimbo uye vachiita sevanotangira munzvimbo dzakasviba zvakanyanya dzepfungwa dzedu. Chaizvoizvo, iwo angori mafungiro asina kujairika muchirongwa chakakura chehunhu hwedu hunogara huchiita.
Kupindira Kunotitambudza
Mifungo yedu haimire kushanda, asi nguva zhinji isu hatinyatso kuterera kune iyo mifungo inobuda kuburikidza nepfungwa dzedu pamusoro pezuva, nekuti hadzinyatsotikanganisa pane manzwiro nhanho.
Heino muenzaniso: iwe ugere padhesiki rako kubasa, kuyedza kuisa pfungwa pane chimwe chinhu chinokodzera pakupera kwezuva, uye kamwe-kamwe (kunze kweZVINO), unoshamisika kuti lasagna yaizoravira sei dai yaigadzirwa nezvidimbu zvepitsai zvasara pane maNoodles enguva dzose. Unogona kumbomira kwekanguva kuti ufunge nezvazvo, funga kuti “huh, izvo zvinogona kunge zvakanaka chaizvo,” wobva waenderera mberi nekushanda usina kupa pfungwa iyoyo.
Kana, zvakadaro, iwe wakadzoserwa nepfungwa yawakashamisika kuti imbwa yako ingaravira sei, iwe ungangoona kuti yako chitima chekufunga chakanyatso kubviswa, uye iwe waizopedza anotevera maawa mashoma uchishamisika WTF ZVAKANAKA?! Iwe unoda imbwa yako uye OMG iwe ungatombogona sei kufunga nezve chakadai chinhu?
Iwe unogona kutakura ese mapikicha embwa yako pafoni yako uye kuwana zvese kuchema zvekuti kufunga kwakashata kwakadai kwakambopfuura nepfungwa dzako uye kuti unove munhu anotyisa sei uye hauchazombodya nyama zvakare uye unombundira Mr. Woofles kuita zvidimbu kana wasvika kumba uye uye uye…
Ose ari maviri iwo mienzaniso yepfungwa dzinopindira, asi lasagna pizza travesty (kana hunyanzvi?) Inodzingwa zviri nyore nekuti haisi taboo chidzidzo ine kusimba kwemanzwiro kumashure. Pfungwa iyoyo yaigona kuyerera ichibuda mundangariro mako zviri nyore sekuyerera kwaiita mukati nekuti psyche yako yakangozviziva seyakagumbuka kwenguva pfupi, uye haina kugara pamusoro payo.
Kune rimwe divi, iko kwakakomba mabvi-kubvunda kuita kune kungofungidzira kwekukuvadza munhu waunoda, ndoda kumudya, rova maronda munzvimbo dzese kuburikidza neako madiki maseru. Kudya imbwa nyama chinhu chikuru taboo mutsika zhinji, uye vazhinji vedu tinodzidziswa kubva pazuva rekutanga kuti imbwa ishamwari uye hatidye shamwari dzedu. Mhuka dzedu dzinovaraidza inhengo dzemhuri kwatiri, uye isu tine hukama hwakasimba hwepamoyo navo, saka kana kufunga kwakangoerekana kwaitika nekurwadziwa pamoyo uye netambo yedhirama… pane cacophony yepfungwa isingagone kufuratirwa.
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Kugara Kunoita Kufunga Kwakajeka Mifungo
Kana pfungwa yekufungidzira yakaita sembwanana mbichana ichiuya, tinowanzo gadzirisa pazviri, izvo zvinongopa simba. Panzvimbo pekungoizunza uye kuiregedza, tinogara, tichitsenga pairi, kuyedza kunzwisisa kwayakabva uye kuti sei. Iwe unonyatso chengetedza chimwe chishuwo chishuwo chekudya imbwa yako here? Ichi chirevo chiratidzo chekutanga cheyambiro yechirwere chepfungwa chakakomba here? Nezvimwewo.
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Mifungo yakaita seiyi inotenderera kunze uye inoita kuti tizvidye mwoyo nekuti hatidi kuva nayo, asi tinonzwa kuti hatina simba pamusoro payo. Panyama, isu tinokwanisa kuratidza zviratidzo zvakaita sekurova kwemoyo nekuti manzwiro akashata anokonzera kurwa / kupindura nendege mukati medu.
Tinogona kukudziridza kusagadzikana-kwekumanikidza kusagadzikana (OCD) nekuti pese patinotarisa pamufananidzo wembwa, iyo kufunga kwekuda kumudya inouya mupfungwa, izvo zvinokonzeresa kushushikana uye zvinoita kuti tione zvakanyanya nezve kutyaira pfungwa kure.
Isu tinogara tichitarisa mifungo yakaita seiyi, asi iko kuita kwekutarisa mukati kuti uone kana vachiri kutenderera kunogona kuvaita kuti vabude, zvakanyanya nenzira imwechete iyo kubvarura bhanhire repurasita kubva paronda kuti uone kana kurapa kuchizokonzeresa. kuvhura zvakare.
Idzi Pfungwa Dzakanaka Zvakakwana, uye Newe Ndo Iwe
Kana chero chinhu chakadai chakamboitika kwauri, tora mweya wakadzika, uye dzikama. Akanaka wese munhu wawakamboziva ane pfungwa dzakadai, asi isu kashoma tinozvibvuma kune vamwe vanhu. Mushure mezvose, kana vakatikanganisa, ivo pasina mubvunzo vanozokanganisa vamwe, uye isu tinosangana nezvakakwana kushungurudzika kwevanhu uye imposter chirwere pasina kuwedzera mamwe mafuta kumoto iwoyo, ndatenda zvikuru.
Idzi pfungwa dzinotangira musango nyika ye kusaziva kwedu pfungwa, kunova ndiko kunobva kugona kwedu kwese. Ndipo apo maartist nevanyori vanowana kurudziro yavo yekupenda uye nyaya, uye uko kwedu zviroto zvakazvarwa.
Kana iwe waizomuka mamwe mangwanani mushure mekubata nehope umo iwe wakazviwana iwe pachako uchitsikirira pasi mbwanana yako, mikana iwe yaunofunga 'kutsvene shit, icho chaive chiroto chakaipa' uye uchizunze uchibvisa paunonwa kofi yako yemangwanani Iwe unogona kubata imbwa yako yakati rebei kupfuura zvakajairwa, asi iwe haungazonyanyo kuvhiringidzika zvakanyanya nekuti, hazvo, kwaingova kurota, handiti?
Sezvo idzi pfungwa dzichibva mukusaziva, zvinogona kuitika kuti ivo vanofuridzirwa nechinhu chiri kusaziva kana kukukanganisa. Iwe unogona kunge wakasvetuka pamusoro penyaya nezve vanhu vanodya imbwa kune imwe nyika uye zvakakukanganisa iwe panguva iyoyo, asi iwe wakaisundira padivi nekuti wakazviona zvichishungurudza.
Nekudzvinyirira, inogona kunge yakazvivharira mune yako subconscious kusvikira yakonzerwa nechimwe chinhu, icho chakazvipinza kumberi uye chakakuburitsa kubva icho chirongwa chawaifanirwa kunge uchishanda nacho.
Iyo kiyi yekubata neaya mafungiro epfungwa akarara zvachose ne zvatinoita kwavari . Kana vakakukatyamadza iwe munguva, zvakanaka kushandisa nguva pfupi uchifunga kuti 'wow, ndozvimwe zvakashatisa shit ipapo,' wobva warega pfungwa yacho IENDA.
Zivare ivo nezvavari, uye edza kusave nechero rudzi rwekuziva kuvenga kwavari chiito chekusemesa ndicho chichaita kuti irambe yakamira mupfungwa dzako. Usatomboedza kuzvifungidzira zvichibhururuka kure newe nenzira yeVulcan yekufungisisa yenzira ingotarisa pane chimwe chinhu, uye usaramba uchidzosera pfungwa dzako kumashure kuti uone kana yaenda zvakadaro.
Kana iwe uchitambura kubva kuOCD, chirwere chekushushikana, PTSD, kana kushushikana, zvinogona kunge zvakatiomera kuti pfungwa idzi dziende, uye zvakanyatsonaka. Ingoedza kuramba wakadzikama, uye edza dzimwe nzira dzakasiyana dzekukubatsira kuti udarike. Pfungwa dzinopindira dzinokukanganisa uye kukanganisa hupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva, taura nachiremba wako kana mumwe mupi wezvehutano. Ivo vanokwanisa kushanda newe kuti uwane hunyanzvi hunoshanda zvakanyanya kwauri, kukubatsira iwe kudzidza maitiro ekuregedza aya marudzi epfungwa kana amuka.
