Tinofanira kunzwira tsitsi narcissist pakati pedu here?
Ndiwo mubvunzo wakaoma wakabvunzwa muchinyorwa chino.
Pamusoro pazvo, unogona kufunga kuti mubvunzo usingabvunze kubvunza - sei tichifanira kutarisira chero munhu anoratidza kusava nehanya nevamwe?
Tarisa uone zvakadzama, zvisinei, uye kune zvimwe zvikonzero zvechokwadi zvinoratidza kuti tinofanirwa kunzwira tsitsi mweya iyi irinani pane kuitora seyakaipisisa.
Iro rinonyanya kuve bakatwa rinocheka nekwakapetwa, zvakadaro.
Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekusanzwa chinhu asi chigumbu kwavari, uye isu tichaedza kutarisa mativi ese ehurukuro iri pazasi.
Tsitsi Vs. Kunzwa Ruregerero Kana Zvakaipa
Musoro wenyaya ino ungadai wakashandisa zviri nyore mazwi ekuti 'ndine hurombo' kana 'akaipa' pachinzvimbo chekunzwira tsitsi, asi izvi zviri zviviri zvinhu zviviri zvausingafanire kunzwa kune narcissist.
Chekutanga, hauna kana chaunombozvidemba kana zvasvika kune ve narcissists.
Iwe hauna kuvaita ivo zvavari, iwe hauna chikwereti navo chinhu, uye kuzviparadzanisa navo kubva hachisi chiito chine hutsinye munzira ipi neipi.
Saizvozvowo, kana iwe uchinzwa zvakashata kune anonyengerera, saka iwe uri zvakare kuwira pasi pechipere.
Iwe haufanire kuratidza zvakashata kumiririra ivo haufanire kurega dambudziko ravo richikuwisira pasi neimwe nzira.
Tsitsi, kune rimwe divi, haisi yekunzwa kwakashata uye hazvireve kuti imhosva kwauri.
Tsitsi manzwiro ane midzi yawo murudo, mukuchengeta, uye mune tsitsi.
Zvikonzero Zvatinofanirwa Kunzwira NevaNarcissist
Ngatijekesei chinhu chimwe: kunzwa kunzwira tsitsi kune anonyanyisa hazvireve kuti iwe unofanirwa kuregerera zviito zvavo.
Kana iwe ukauya kuzofunga mamiriro acho zvakanyanya kuzviisa pasi, zvakadaro, iwe ungasarudza kuti mhinduro yakanyanya pairi ndeye yekutarisira.
Narcissism inogona kutariswa sehurwere hwepfungwa hwakadai iko kusagadzikana kwepfungwa kunokanganisa zvakanyanya hupenyu hweavo vanotambura nayo.
Chikonzero chaicho hachizivikanwe uye zvingangoita kuti kune nzira dzakasiyana siyana dzinotungamira vanhu kuenda kunarcissism.
Kufanana nehunhu hwako, chichava musanganiswa wemageneti uye neruzivo rwehupenyu.
Iyi ndiyo nharo yakakosha yekunzwa tsitsi kune vanonyengedza.
murume anosiya mumwe mukadzi zvicharamba zvakadaro
Vakagadzira nenzira iyi nekuda kwezvinhu izvo zvave zvakanyanya kupfuura kwavo kudzora kukura.
Vanogona kunge vasiri ivo vanokonzeresa kune avo nyaya pane mumwe munhu anotambura zvakanyanya kunetseka kana ari bipolar.
Iwe unofanirwa kubvunza kana chero narcissist achisarudza kuve akadaro kuburikidza kwavo kwekuzvisarudzira.
Isu tinogona zvakare kunzwira tsitsi narcissist kana isu tikaziva kuti vazhinji havasi kufara sei (asi kwete vese) vangangove vari.
Mazhinji maitiro avo anobva kuna kuzvishora izvo zvinovasiya vakatsamwa uye vakashungurudzika.
Ivo vanotora izvi vachibudisira kune vamwe senzira yekugadzirisa, asi hazvivanzi chokwadi chekuti pasi pasi, ivo vari kusangana nekurwadziwa kukuru kwavo.
Chimwe chikamu chechokwadi chinosuruvarisa chevazhinji narcissist ndechekuti ivo vanonetseka kuvaka uye kuchengetedza chero hukama chaihwo.
Vanogona kunzwa kubatana kushoma kumhuri dzavo, vane vashoma shamwari dzavanogona kuvimba nadzo, uye kusvetuka kubva kuhukama hune njodzi kuenda kune humwe.
Zvino chiise iwe mumashangu avo kwechinguva uye fungidzira kuti izvi zvinonzwa sei (chimwe chinhu icho narcissists chisingakwanise kuita).
Fungidzira hupenyu hwausingakwanise kunzwa rudo, hukama hwepedyo, tsitsi, uye rudo.
Iwe unofunga kusurukirwa kwakadii kurarama kwakadai kungave kuri?
Nekufamba kwenguva, vachatyaira huwandu hwakawanda hwevaya vanovachengeta vachienda uye vanosiiwa vasina chinhu kunze kwehuswa husina chinhu hwekutsamwa nekukuvara.
Chekupedzisira, iwe ungangonzwa kunzwira tsitsi kune ve narcissist nekuti ivo vanoshaya mukana wekukura - zvese ivo pachavo uye pamweya.
Vazhinji havazombonzwisise pasi nenzvimbo yaro mariri, havatombonzwa kunzwa kwakadzika kwekubatana kune zvimwe zvakasikwa, uye havafi vakakwanisa kuzvivandudza sevanhu.
sei kusawira kune mumwe munhu
Isa zvese zviri pamusoro pamwe chete uye unogona kutanga kunzwisisa kuti mumwe munhu angaratidze sei kunzwira tsitsi kune ve narcissists.
Zvimwe zvakakosha kuverenga narcissist (chinyorwa chinoenderera pazasi):
- Kurwadzisa A Narcissist
- Iyo Covert Narcissist: Anonyara Sei, Anopindirana Mhando Anogona Kuva maNarcissist Zvakare
- Maitiro Ekuita NaNarcissist: Iyo Chete Nzira Yakavimbiswa Kushanda
- 8 Zvinhu Zvinhu Narcissist Haigone Kukuitira Iwe (Kana Chero Mumwe Munhu)
- Iyo Rollercoaster Yekudzoreredza Kubva kuNarcissistic Kushungurudzwa
- Rudo Kubhomba: Chiratidzo Chekutanga Chekunyevera Kuti Uri Kufambidzana neNarcissist
Zvikonzero Zvatisingafanire Kunzwira Narcissists
Avo vakaiswa pasi pekambani yemunyengeri pane chero hurefu hwakareba pasina mubvunzo vanokuudza kuti vangabhadharise mutero zvakadii.
Zvisingashamisi, saka, nharo huru dzinopesana nekunzwa tsitsi kwavari ndedzekuita nehunhu hwavo uye mabatiro avo evamwe vanhu.
Uye ingangoita pese pese nyaya yekuti narcissists vane hunhu hunoparadza kuva varipo.
Haasi mabhenekeri erunyararo nerunyararo kana nepadiki. Vanoratidzika kunge vanofarira nyonganiso nemutambo.
Zvichida imhaka yekuti chero chimiro chekudzikama chinopa pfungwa dzavo nguva yekufungisisa pane yavo pfungwa yekusafara kuti ivo vari kutsvaga zvachose nzira dzekumutsa dambudziko.
Uyezve, avo vanozviwana vari muhukama hwepedyo narcissist - zvese vamwe uye nhengo dzemhuri zvakafanana - chiitiko chiitiko chinongowedzera kuwedzera nekufamba kwenguva.
Pakupedzisira, mabatiro anoita narcissist vanhu ava anoita sekushungurudza kwakanyanya.
Ivo vane basa rekuparadza hupenyu uye kuita kuti vamwe vanzwe vasina kukosha.
Ivo vanokwanisa zvekurwisa zvine utsinye mupfungwa dzeavo vavari padhuze uye vanogona kusiya avo vavakuvadzwa vane hupenyu hwese.
Zvakare ndezvekuti nzanga inowanzo nyatso kujekesa pane izvo uye zvisingagamuchirike maitiro, uye saka narcissists vanonyatso ziva kuti kwavo zviito zvinonzi zvinoshorwa nevamwe.
Izvo zvinofanirwa kutaurwa, saka, kuti ivo vanoita neruzivo ruzere rwezvakaipa zvavari kuita uye nezve hupenyu hwavari kukanganisa.
Izvo zvinonyanya kuomera mudumbu kune vazhinji ndezvekuti ma narcissist anowanzo ratidza kushoma kana kusatombozvidemba maitiro avo, asi kuyedza kupomera mhosva kune vamwe vese.
Vanosangana nekutonhora uye kuverenga, zvisina kana kukanganiswa nekushushikana kwavanokonzera.
Uye zvinosuruvarisa kupfuura zvese, pamwe, ndezvekuti vashoma vashoma vanonyengerera vanozoita mhando dzekuchinja dzinodiwa kudzora kukanganisa kwavo.
Therapy inogona kubatsira vamwe kupomhodza maitiro avo kune vamwe, asi 'kurapa' narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana kunenge kusinganzwiki.
Saka Isu Tinofanirwa Kunzwa Kunzwira Tsitsi Kune VaNarcissist?
Uyu mubvunzo wauchazoda kuzvipindurira wega.
Nharo dziri pamusoro hadzina kukwana nenzira ipi neipi uye, zvirokwazvo, kune mabhuku akazara anokurukura kusagadzikana uku uye nenzvimbo yayo munzanga.
Manzwiro aunoita nezveve narcissist, kusvika padanho rakakura, zvinoenderana neako pachako chiitiko chavo.
Mukupedzisira, hapana munhu anogona kukuita unzwire tsitsi kune dambudziko remunyengeri uye kunyangwe kumisikidza nharo uye nekupokana nenzira inonzwisisika zvingasabatsira.
Sarudzo ndeyako wega kuti uite.
