Kugumisa hukama inogara iri sarudzo hombe yekuita.
Chero angave mamiriro ezvinhu, kurambana kunokonzeresa kurwadziwa uye kurwadza, uye kunogona kukonzera shanduko huru muhupenyu hwako, uye nehupenyu hwevamwe.
Idzi sarudzo dzinogona dzimwe nguva kuve dzakatwasuka uye dema uye chena. Dzimwe nguva, iwe unongoziva kuti ndicho chinhu chakakodzera kuita.
Asi, kazhinji yenguva, idzi sarudzo dzinosanganisa nyonganiso yakawanda uye 'chii-dai,' uye hauzombove uine chokwadi kana wasarudza mugwagwa wakarurama.
Nekuda kweizvozvo, zvese zviri nyore kwazvo kungoramba uchiisa sarudzo nezve kurambana, uchiviga musoro wako mujecha, uchivimba kuti zvinhu zvese zvichangozvigadzirisa zvemashiripiti.
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Asi usavhunduke! Kungoti nekuti urikufunga nezve sarudzo yekuputsa mumwe munhu, hazvireve kuti hukama hwenyu hunofanirwa kuparara.
Kana iwe uri kuva nepfungwa idzi, hukama hwako hunoda kushanda, sechimwe chinhu chisina kunaka pakati pako, asi zvinogona kunge kusiri iko kuguma.
Chero nzira, iwe unoziva sei icho chakakodzera kuita?
Nehurombo, hapana imwe-saizi-inokodzera-yese mhinduro kune ino. Munhu wega anogona kuziva zvakakunakira ndiwe.
Hapana anokwanisa kukuudza mafambiro aunofanira kuenda kumberi uchibva pano, asi heino runyorwa rwemibvunzo iwe yaunogona kuzvibvunza kuti uone danho rinotevera rinofanira kuve rako iwe nemumwe wako. Mibvunzo diki, kana uchida.
Zvibvunze mibvunzo iyi, uye usanyara kure nechokwadi.
Unofanirwa kuita izvo zvakanaka, uye sekuziva kwedu tese, izvo zvakanaka hazvireve kuti nguva dzose zviri nyore.
1. Ndiri kufara here?
Iyi yakanaka chaizvo. Ehezve, mufaro wako haufanire kumbotsamira zvachose pahukama hwako chinzvimbo.
Mufaro unofanirwa kubva mukati uye zvinoenderana nemhando dzese dzezvinhu zvisina chekuita nemumwe wako.
sei kuva nemoyo unotonhora
Asi… kana paine chimwe chinhu chisina kukodzera muhukama hwako, zvinogona kunge zvakaoma kuti unzwe kufara kana kugutsikana nehupenyu hwako.
Kana iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge 'wabviswa' muhukama hwako, saka iwe une imwe kufunga kwekuita.
2. Mumwe wangu anofara here?
Kune vaviri venyu muhukama uhwu, uye kana munhu uyu akakosha kwauri, ndine chokwadi kuti unongonetsekana nemufaro wavo sezvauri nezvako.
Vanoratidzika sevanofara kwauri here?
Zvakare, mufaro wavo haufanire kunge uri wako mutoro, uye vanogona kunge vasina mufaro kune ese marudzi ezvikonzero izvo zvisina chekuita newe ...
… Asi kana iwe uchifunga kuti hukama hwako hunogona kunge huchiita zvakashata pavari, icho hachisi chiratidzo chikuru.
3. Hukama hwangu hunondibatsira kudzidza nekukura here?
Inguva yekufunga nezve kukanganiswa kwehukama hwako pauri semunhu.
Edza kufunga nezvazvo kubva pakuona kweshamwari yako yepamwoyo. Vangati hukama hwako hunowedzera mukushamisa kwako here, kana kuzvitsausa pairi?
Mumwe wako anoburitsa zvakanaka mauri here? Dzinodzora kupenya kwako here, kana kukuita kuti upenye kupenya kupfuura nakare kose?
Vakakukurudzira iwe kudzidza uye kukura? Vakakuzivisa iwe kuzvinhu zvitsva here?
4. Mumwe wangu anondikurudzira kuti ndive munhu kwaye here?
Kana tichida mumwe munhu, tinofunga kuti vakanaka kwazvo, zvisinei nekukanganisa kwavo.
Kushamisika kwavo kunotikurudzira kuti tive iyo yakanakisa vhezheni yedu pachedu yatingave isu.
ndinofunga wandinoshanda naye anondida
Kana mumwe wako asingaiti, uye asina kumbokukurudzira kuti uzvigadzirire iwe pachako, saka zvinogona kunge zvisiri hukama hwakakodzera iwe.
5. Tinotsigirana here?
Paunenge uri muhukama, iwe uri nhengo yechikwata.
Nhengo mbiri dzechikwata ichocho dzinofanirwa kunge dzichida kutsigira imwe kana zvinhu zvikaita makata.
Kana iwe usinga nzwe sekuti unovatsigira, uye ukasawana rutsigiro rwaunoda kumashure, icho chiratidzo chakashata.
Zvinoreva kuti hukama hwako hungangotanga kuratidza kutsemuka kana hupenyu hwahuisa pasi pechinetso.
6. Kutaurirana kwedu kwakadii?
Muri vaviri munotaurirana zvakanaka here?
Iwe unokwanisa here kukurukura dzinonyengera, dzakaomarara, dzezvakazvimirira zvidzidzo navo?
Iwe unokwanisa here kuva akatendeseka zvakakwana?
Kana kutaurirana kwako kusiri kukuru, iwe unofunga chiri chinhu chaunogona kushandira pazviri, kana chingave chikanganiso chinouraya?
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7. Ndeapi matambudziko makuru muhukama hwedu?
Zvinogona kubatsira kunyorera runyorwa rwezvinhu zvikuru pakati pako.
Kuisa munwe pane chaizvo zviri kutadza kunogona kukubatsira kuti uone kana zvinhu zvikagadziriswa.
8. Takakurukura uye tikashanda pazvinhu izvi here?
Zvakanaka, saka iwe wasimbisa kuti chii chako chikuru nyaya. Ndizvo zvinhu zvawakashanda kare here?
Wakambove nekurukurirano dzechokwadi pamusoro padzo here? Wakamboedza kutsvaga nzira dzekuzvigadzirisa, uye nekunyatsoisa iko kuedza kugadzirisa zvinhu?
Hukama ibasa rakaoma , uye panogara paine zvigumbuso mumugwagwa.
Kana iwe uchida munhu uyu, iwe unofanirwa kukwanisa kutaura kuti waita zvese zvaunogona kuti zviite kuti zvishande, kunyangwe zvikasadaro.
Kana iwe usiri kuda kuisa iko kuedza mukati, saka iwe wawana mhinduro yako.
9. Ndinovimba navo here?
Kuvimba ndiyo lynch pini yehupi hukama. Kana kuvimba pakati pako kwaenda, uye iwe usingafunge kuti kunogona kugadziriswa, saka hapana hwaro hwekuti imi vaviri muvakire pane.
10. Ndakagadzirira here kuzvipira uye kubvumirana pane zvemunhu uyu?
Kana vanhu vaviri vakauya pamwechete muhukama hwepabonde, panogara paine kuzvipira kunosanganisirwa.
Wakagadzikana nazvo here?
Unovada here zvekukwanisa kuisa zvavanoda pamberi pako pachako pazvinenge zvichidikanwa?
11. Ndinovagumbukira here?
Iwe unombonzwa here sekunge hukama hwakatadzisa iwe kumashure?
Isu tese tinofanirwa kukanganisa rudo, asi kana iwe ramba mumwe wako nekuda kwekukanganisa kwawakavaitira, izvo zvinogona zvishoma nezvishoma kutsemuka pahukama hwenyu.
12. Ndinogona here kufungidzira ramangwana nemunhu uyu?
Fungidzira hupenyu hwako makore mashanu kubva ikozvino, makore gumi kubva ikozvino, uye makore makumi matatu kubva zvino.
kutya kwekusazombodanana nerudo
Ramangwana rako rakamira sei? Mumwe wako wazvino chikamu chayo? Iwe uri kuzviona iwe pachako uchivaka hupenyu navo?
13. Ini ndinogovana zvinangwa zvakafanana nemumwe wangu here?
Kunyangwe paine rudo rwakadii pakati pevanhu vaviri, kana vasingagovane maonero akafanana uye vane zvinangwa zvakafanana, hapana hwaro hwakawanda hwehukama hunogara.
Iwe haufanire kubvumirana pane zvese (ndipo panoda kubvuma kukanganisa), asi iwe unofanirwa kushandira rakanangana neramangwana rinoenderana newe mese.
14. Ndiri kutya kuzvipira here?
Iyi mifungo nezve kuputsa mhedzisiro ye kutya kuzvipira , iwe chikamu?
Kana zvadaro zvingaitika, funga nokungwarira kuti ungazvidemba here kana ukarega nyaya idzi dzichikanganisa hukama hwenyu.
kuuya pakubvumirana nekuve wakashata
15. Pane zviripo here dhizaini mabhureki ?
Inguva yekuvimbika kwauri.
Pane chero chinhu nezve uyu munhu chingagona, pane imwe nguva kuzasi kwemutsara, kutsanangura kupera kwehukama hwako?
Ivo vanoda kuroora rimwe zuva, asi iwe unopesana nazvo?
Ivo havadi vana, iwe pawakagara uchirota zvekuve mubereki?
Kana paine chero zvinhu zvakakura zvausingawone neziso pane zvaunoziva kuti zvinogona kukuputsa gare gare, panogona kuve nenyaya yekugumisa zvinhu izvozvi.
16. Shamwari dzangu nemhuri vanofanana navo here?
Amai vako vanovada here? Shamwari dzako dzepamwoyo dzinovada here?
Vangangodaro vasina kuratidza kushingaira kwavo, asi kana vasina kumbokuudza kuti vanofunga kuti munogarisana, vanogona kunge vasina chokwadi nezvehukama hwenyu.
Iva akatendeseka iwe pachako nezvekuti nei zvingave zvakadaro. Vanhu vanotida isu kazhinji vanoziva zvakatinakira, kunyangwe kana, yakawanda nguva, isu tisingade kuzvinzwa.
17. Dai ndikangodzvanya bhatani hombe dzvuku ndikapedza hukama ndisina kana chinhu chinosemesa chekurambana, ndaizozviita here?
Ichi chinhu chandakanzwa zvakanyanya mumakore mashoma apfuura. Muedzo wekupedzisira kuziva kana iwe uchifanira kusiyana nemumwe munhu ndeuyu.
Fungidzira iwe uchigona kupinda mukamuri, tinya bhatani rakatsvuka bhuru uye wopedza hukama, pasina imwe yenhaurwa hurukuro, hapana imwe yemisodzi, hapana kana kusuwa kwemoyo.
Ungazviita here? Kana iwe uchida, saka iwe wawana mhinduro yako.
