Tsika dzakakurumbira dzakaita kuti titende kuti kana vanhu vakatikomberedza vasingaratidze mwero unotarisirwa wekunzwira tsitsi, pane chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka navo.
Vamwe vanonyorwa sevanonyengedza, vamwe se sociopaths , asi ndizvo chaizvo? Ichokwadi, kune mutoro wakadeurwa weavo marudzi kunze uko, asi kushomeka kunoratidzika kwekunzwira tsitsi kune mumwe munhu hakusi iko chikonzero chekufungidzira kuti vanowira mune chimwe chezvikamu izvi.
Patinenge tichitambura uye tikatendeukira kune mumwe munhu kuti atitsigire, tarisiro yedu ndeyekuti vachatinzwira tsitsi uye vatinyaradze. Icho chishuwo chakadzika-mweya icho chatinacho kana isu tichizvibvumira isu kuve vanotambura nevamwe.
Nekudaro, isu patinoratidza yedu yakapfava underbelly uye tobvuma kuti tinoda rutsigiro, uye iyo yatakavhura kuti itendeuke kwatiri, zvinorwadza segehena.
Tinogona kunzwa kushamiswa, kutengesa , uye mamwe manzwiro akashata nekuti shamwari yedu yakanyatsoita polar inopesana neyatinoda kubva kwavari, uye fungidziro yedu ndeyekuti ivo vari kutonhora. Vane hutsinye. Ivo sociopathic kana vanonyanyisa narcissists uye zvachose vasingakwanise kunzwa zvakanaka, nekuti dai vakadaro, vaizonzwisisa zvido zvedu panguva iyoyo uye vakakotamira kumashure kuti vatipe rutsigiro rwavo.
Panogona kuve nezvikonzero zvakawanda zvakasiyana nei munhu asingaratidze kunzwira tsitsi kana tsitsi nenzira yaunotarisira kuti ivo, panguva yaunoda kuti vadaro, uye zvikonzero zvakanyorwa pazasi zvinongova zvishoma zvacho.
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Ruzhinji rwedu rwunorega kupaza zvese zvedu pachedu pamapeji edu enhau, uye nekudaro isu hatinyatso kuziva izvo mumwe munhu angave ari kusangana nazvo chero panguva ipi.
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Vamwe vanhu vanokwanisa kuchengetedza yakasimba façade uku vachibata neinoshamisa huwandu hwe kurwadziwa - zvese panyama uye nemanzwiro , asi kunyangwe ivo vachiita senge stoic uye akanaka, muchokwadi ivo vakangobata sh * t yavo pamwechete. Zvese zvavanoda ndeimwe chikungiso chidiki kuita kuti vadonhedze mumadhaka emisodzi inoshungurudza.
Semuenzaniso, mumwe wevakadzi vaunoshanda navo (ngatimbomudanai Jenna) anogona kunge achinetswa neimwezve nzira yekurapa yekubereka yakundikana, uye ave kutarisana nechokwadi chaicho chekuti haatombobvira kuva nemwana wake.
Haana kutaura izvi nemumwe munhu kubasa nekuti munhu akazvimiririra, asi akashushikana pamoyo uye akangobata bata kumaskandi, yepariki mask yaakapfeka.
Panguva yekudya kwemasikati, muhantini yemuhofisi, mumwe waanoshanda naye anounza musoro wenyaya pamusoro peshamwari inosuruvara nekuti achangobva kupererwa nemimba, uye Jenna anobuda mumba asina kana izwi. Wese munhu anotanga kuzevezera, kugumburwa nehunhu hwake uye kumudaidza asina moyo nehutsitsi hwebhiza rakafa, ukuwo akazvivharira mumota yake kuti agone kuchema matama ake ari ega.
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Zvakaoma kusafungidzira uye kutonga vamwe nezvehunhu hwavo, asi sezvo isu tisingazombokwanisa svika kune imwe pfungwa kana moyo uye kunyatso kuziva zvavari kunzwa, kazhinji zano rakanaka kuvapa iwo mukana wekupokana.
Uye nenzira yakafanana…
Vari Kutambura Tsitsi Kuneta
Wanga uchiziva here kuti nhasi, munhu wepakati anozoburitswa kune dzakawanda nhau neruzivo kupfuura mumwe munhu munguva yeVictorian angadai akaverenga kana kunzwa nezvazvo mugore?
Chinhu chidiki kushamisika kuti sei vanhu vazhinji vakatambudzwa nekushushikana nekuvhunduka apo zuva nezuva, avo venhau venhau maficha akazadzwa nemhando dzese dzekusarongeka, nyaya dzinotyisa, uye kupererwa.
Kune vamwe vanhu, kugara uchirwiswa kweizvi zvese kusagadzikana kunogona kuvakonzera kukudziridza kuneta kwetsitsi. Ndihwo hunhu hunombokura mune vanamukoti. Mushure meimwe huwandu hwekuratidzwa kwenguva yakareba kumamiriro ezvinhu kana ruzivo rwunokuvadza pamoyo, pfungwa dzinongo… rudzi rwekuvhara nzvimbo yekunzwira tsitsi senzira yekuzvichengetedza.
Munhu wacho anoenda kune autopilot anokwanisa kushanda uye kuita basa ravo zvine hunyanzvi, asi pasina kubatikana mupfungwa. Kazhinji, zvingangove izvo, kana kuzara kwekutya nekuda kwezvose zvinotyisa, zvehungwaru zvine mutsindo zvavari kukwikwidzana nazvo.
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Vanhu vanoshanda munzvimbo dzakanyanya-kushushikana (senge vanamukoti vewadhi yekushungurudzika kana varapi vemumunda munzvimbo dzehondo) vanoitawo manzwiro pamatanho akasiyana, uye vane zvakakosha zvakasiyana kana zvasvika pane zvavanofunga kuti zvakakomba.
Zvakaoma kunzwira tsitsi nemunhu ari kuchema-chema nekuchema pamusoro pegumbo rake rakamonerwa paunenge uchifanira kucheka nhengo yemumwe munhu nekuti akarohwa nebhomba shrapnel, munoziva?
Kune munhu ari kubata nespain, iwoyo anogona kunge ari marwadzo akaipisisa avakamboona uye vari kutsvaga kumbonyaradzwa uye kunyaradzwa kubva kune mumwe munhu wavanofarira. Kumunda wemushonga, iwo mubvunzo wekuti 'Ini handikwanise kana. Huya utaure neni paunenge uchibuda ropa mumaziso ako. '
Unogona zvakare kuda (chinyorwa chinoenderera pazasi):
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Ivo Vari Kubata nePamoyo Kushungurudzika kana PTSD
Kune vamwe vanhu, kushayikwa kwekunzwira tsitsi kunogona kubva muchiitiko chinotyisa munguva yavo yakapfuura.
Vanhu avo, sevana, vaifanira kubata nemamiriro ezvinhu mavakashungurudzwa, kana kuitiswa nenjodzi huru, nharaunda inoshungurudza, kazhinji vakafanirwa kuvhara mafungiro avo ekuita kuti vaenderere mberi.
Saka nekudaro, pane mhando yekudzikisira maitiro kana zvasvika pamanzwiro avo avo kubata mashandiro kwaive kudzikisira maitiro avo kukanganiswa kwemweya, saka vanoita kunge vane mukana wakakwirira kwazvo wekuona marwadzo nekutambura.
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Vanogona kuratidzika sevanotonhora kana vasinganzwi, asi iko kuita (kana kushomeka kwayo) kwakakonzerwa nekudiwa kwekuzvidzivirira ivo pavaibata nemamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa zvisingaite munguva yavo yakapfuura.
Uku kumwe kunongedzera kuidi rekuti isu kazhinji hatingamboziva vamwe vanhu pamwe nezvatinofunga zvatinoita, uye zvinogona kutora vanhu makore kutizarurira isu nezve hutsinye hwavakararama kuburikidza nahwo, kana vakambotaura nezvazvo kwatiri zvachose.
Zviri nyore kwazvo kushora mumwe nekuda kwekutonhora kwavo, pazvinogoneka kuti havana simba rakawanda pamusoro pemhinduro iyoyo zvachose.
Ivo vane Kutadza Kutaurirana kune Zvimwe
Pane chimwezve chikonzero chakasimba chekuti sei vanhu vangaratidzika kunge vasina tsitsi, uye izvo ndezvekuti vazhinji vanogona chete kunyatsonzwisisa uye kunzwira tsitsi nezvinhu zvavakasangana nazvo pachavo.
Semuenzaniso, mumwe munhu asati ambowana chepfu yechikafu anogona kuseka kune avo vakatambura nazvo, kudzamara vawana ivo pachavo uye votenderedzwa nenhamo nekurwadziwa.
IZVOZVI, kana vachinge vazvinzwira vega, vanokwanisa kunzwira tsitsi vamwe vanhu vachidaro.
Idzi ndidzo mhando dzevanhu avo, kana vakatarisana nenyaya kana mifananidzo yevanhu vanotambura munzvimbo dziri kure, havagone kunyatsoenderana nezvavari kusangana nazvo uye, nekudaro, vasina simba manzwiro ekupindura mukudzosa.
Zvinhu zvakashata zviri kuitika mune nebulous 'kure kure, kunze uko kumwe kunhu,' asi zvinoitika-pane zviri kure kure kubva 'pano' zvekuti zvinoita kunge surreal… zvinoita sekutarisa firimu kana TV inoratidza yakazara yevatambi kwete vanhu chaivo.
Uku ndiko 'kumisidzana' kwatinofanira kungwarira nezvatinofanira kuyeuka kuti nekuda kwekuti mumwe munhu anogara kure, hazvireve kuti havanzwe zvakafanana nezvatinoita. Ivo vakangofanana nesu.
Sekucherekedza parutivi, vanhu vanonetseka kunzwira tsitsi kune vamwe vari kure havana kufanana neavo vanogona kutarisa vana vakaondoroka kana vapoteri vane nzara vongotaura chimwe chinhu kune 'kwete dzinza rangu, kwete dambudziko rangu.'
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Idzo idhongi.
