9 Kunzwa Kunoda Kuti VaNarcissist Vagadzire Kugadzira Pamatambudziko Avo

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Hukama neve narcissist hwakaomesesa, husina kujairika, uye hunotyisa.



Izvi zvinodaro nekuti hapana chisungo 'chakajairika', asi chimwe chakanangana nekushungurudzika (kwayakatangira, muzviitiko zvakawanda, inosanganisira chiitiko chinoshungurudza chehudiki nemumwechete kana vaviri vabereki uye / kana vachengeti) izvo zvakaoma kuziva nekuporesa.

Ndokunge, akabatwa achasarudza asingazive waanofambidzana naye ari fungidziro yaamai / baba vavo. Ivo vanotsvaga irwo rudo rusina mamiriro rwusina kupihwa panguva yehudiki.



Asi, narcissist, zviri pachena kuti urwu rudo haruzopihwe.

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Pane zvinopesana, munhu akabatwa achaona kudzokororwa kwekushungurudzwa / kubatwa zvisina kunaka kwakaitika kwavari muhudiki.

Iyo nyaya inodzokorora yakadzokororwa, hukama mushure mehukama, kusvikira munhu anenge atambudzwa atanga parwendo rwe kupora uye kuporesa .

VaNarcissist vanoedza kuita kuti avo vavanobata vanzwe neimwe nzira kuitira kuti varambe vari vega uye vasina dziviriro.

Iye narcissist anodenha aya manzwiro mumunhu akabatwa, achizviita mukati mepfungwa yemunhu akuvara.

Kupora kupi zvako kusati kwaitika, nyajambwa anofanira kuziva kuti uku kunzwa hakusi kwavo. Ivo vanofanirwa kuvaona ivo zvavari - ngetani dzakatenderedza makumbo avo uye mabhawa pahwindo repfungwa dzavo chikamu chejeri rakashongedzwa.

Mimwe yemanzwiro akasimba anosanganisira:

Nyadzi

Mukati, ma narcissist anonzwa kunyara kwakawanda. Pasi pemufananidzo wepamusoro uye hukuru pane 'murombo' anochema.

Ivo vanoratidzira aya manzwiro ekunyara uye kusakwanira kune vamwe kuitira kuti vakunde navo.

Kunyanya, munhu mumwe anosarudzwa kuti amiririre nyadzi idzi. Kazhinji mumwe munhu ari padyo narcissist uye ari pachinzvimbo chekuvimbika kwakazara, kunyangwe ichi chiri chaicho, semwanakomana kana mwanasikana, kana kungoonekwa seakadaro neanotambudzwa, semumwe wako, mushandi, kana shamwari .

Iye / iye acharatidzira kunyadziswa uku nezvirevo zvinopa meseji yekuti tarisiro haina kukwana, inokanganisa, uye haina kukodzera rudo.

Kuzvipa mhosva

VaNarcissist vanehunyanzvi hwekunyengedza uye vanozoedza kuita kuti avo vavanobata vanzwe vane mhosva kuitira kuti vagovadzora uye vawane ruoko rwepamusoro muhukama

Meseji inoburitswa ndeyekuti nyajambwa anokodzera chimwe chinhu chakaipa chiri kuitika kwaari, kuti ane chikwereti chakawanda kumunyori, kana kuti maitiro ake ano 'gombedzera' narcissist kuti avarange.

Nekuita kuti zviite senge iko kukanganisa kuri kune akabatwa, anonyengedza anodzivirira maitiro avo kubva pakuwongorora zvakanyanya.

Kuzvipokana

VaNarcissist vakaita sevana vakashatiswa avo vanoda kuti zvese zviende nenzira yavo. Kana munhu akabatwa achiedza kupa maonero, kuzviratidza, kana kusawirirana, anonyengedza anozoita pfungwa yekusava nechokwadi mavari, kuti varege kuvimba nemaonero avo nekutenda kwavo.

Kuti aite izvi, narcissist anoshandisa zvishandiso senge kubatidza gasi , kutukwa / kushungurudzwa, kunyarara , uye neshoko saradhi.

Kuenderana

VaNarcissist vanhu vanovimba zvakanyanya, avo vanofanirwa kupa chikafu chinogadziriswa icho chinopihwa nevamwe.

Nekudaro, ivo vanogadzira fungidziro umo iye anenge akuvadzwa anozvida ivo, apo, chaizvo, iye anovimba zvakanyanya ndiye narcissist.

Mitongo yakaita sewe 'hausi chinhu pasina ini,' 'ndiani angakude dai ndisiri ini?' kana 'waizoendepi kana tikarambana?' zvakagadzirirwa kugadzira manzwiro e kutevedza .

Unogona zvakare kuda (chinyorwa chinoenderera pazasi):

Hasha

Neve narcissist, hukama hwakavakirwa pakudzora uye kuzviisa pasi / kutonga.

Ivo vanogara vachitsvaga maitiro emanzwiro kubva kune mumwe munhu kuti ave nechokwadi chekuti vanoziva chii 'mabhatani' ekupusha. Nenzira iyi ivo vanokwanisa kumutsa mhinduro pane kuda kuti vagare vachichengeta mumwe munhu kurutsoka rwemashure.

Ivo zvakare vane yakawanda isina kugadziriswa kutsamwa / kutsamwa kwavo ivo kwavanokanda kune akabatwa kune kwavo kuzorodzwa uye kuti vawedzere kuwedzera kutonga pamusoro pehukama.

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Kuita zvakakwana

VaNarcissist vasingagutsikane kukwana, vasingatombogutsikana nechinhu chero chipi zvacho. Ivo vanoshaya tsitsi uye kuzvigamuchira ivo pachavo nepasi sezvazviri.

Mukutsvaga kwavo kweyekufungidzira yekukwana, ivo vanozove vanoparadza uye vanonyanya kushora zvese zvakavatenderedza, kunyanya munhu akabatwa.

Iye akabatwa, kudzamara vatanga kunzwisisa zviri kunyatsoitika, anozoedza kuwana iko kukwana, pakupedzisira, kudiwa narcissist.

Kuzvitarisira pasi

Ego yemunyaradzi inoita kuti vatsvage kutonga kwakazara muhukama hwavo. Imwe nzira yekuzadzikisa kudzora uku kudzikisira kuzviremekedza kweiye anenge arohwa kuitira kuti ave anoteerera, anozviisa pasi uye anoteerera.

Izvi zvinogadzira kupenga mamiriro apo narcissist ndiye tenzi uye akabatwa muranda (mune zvemari, nenzira, uye pamoyo).

Iye anenge akuvadzwa chaiye muranda wezvose zvinangwa kusvikira vasheedza simba nehushingi hwekutyora chisungo chine chepfu zvakadaro.

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VaNarcissist havana tsitsi chero zvodii uye ivo vanodyisa hunhu hwavo vachirasikirwa nevanhu vavanenge vakatenderedza, kunyanya munhu wavari muhukama naye.

Mushure mekuratidzwa kwenguva refu pakurapwa kwavo, munhu akabatwa anonzwa kusuruvara, kusurukirwa, uye kusava netariro asingagone kunyatsoona zviri kutadza.

Inonzwa senge isina chinhu mukati isina mhinduro, hapana mukana wekupora, uye inoita kuti nyajambwa anzwe kuti 'chimwe chinhu chakabviswa.'

Kana iye / iye achiedza kuburitsa izvi, mhinduro yemunyori ndeyekuti kana paine chakaipa, zviri izvo, iye akabatwa.

Kusava netariro

Kuva muhukama neye narcissist chiitiko chinotyisa kwazvo. Inofananidzwa, nedzimwe nyanzvi dzekushungurudzika, neiyo yekuve muhondo kana sekete.

Pane danho rekugeza uropi rinoitika iro rinovavarira kuita kuti nyajambwa anzwe kunge asingabatsiri uye kusava netariro kuitira kuti agare nanyengeri.

Kudambura chisungo kwakaoma zvikuru, sezvo kuchiwanzo kuve kwakabatana nezvinetso zvouhwana. Zvakakosha, zvakadaro, sezvo ichidzosa chimwe chinhu chakakosha kune akabatwa: tariro muhupenyu.

Kuziva mhando dzemanzwiro idzo narcissist anozoedza kugadzira pane avo vanobatwa kunobatsira mukuziva kana iwe uchinge uchinyanya kubatanidzwa neumwe.

Kana iwe ukazviona iwe uchisangana neipi yeaya manzwiro kakawanda kana nehusimbe kupfuura zvawakaita kare (mushure mezvose, isu tese tinowana mamwe emanzwiro aya nguva nenguva), ungangoda kubvunza kwaakabva.

Kana munhu mutsva apinda muhupenyu hwako - kunyanya muchiitiko chemudiwa mutsva - iwe ungangoda kutsika zvakanyatsotsvaga uye utsvage zvimwe zviratidzo zvekuti vanogona kuve narcissist, kunyangwe zvakaipa , chivande , kana zvine mwero .

Kana iwe uchifunga kuti unogona kuve uchive nechekuita narcissist, nzira yakanakisa yekutiza makwikwi avo ndeyekudimura zvachose uye kusaenda kusangana.